There I was giggling about the games that I had played with many hearts, and I'm not saying no names. Then the thought occured, tear drops made my eyes burn as I said to myself look what you've done to her. I can feel it inside, I can't explain how it feels. All I know is that I'll never dish another raw deal. <object width="445" height="364"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/SW8LXmF0Aic&hl=en&fs=1&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/SW8LXmF0Aic&hl=en&fs=1&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="445" height="364"></embed></object> Multiple... to say the least.
I think it's really sweet how so many of you grown men are able to get all emo so often on a sports-themed message board. It's almost as if we need an "emo" subforum in Hangout
What 21 year old guy still gives a crap about a girl who broke up with him when he was 13? I really don't think that's "love"... more like bat**** crazy. You should get a restraining order.
The way I've seen it, guys are usually more emotional and act more on impulse when it comes to relationships than girls. Girls tend to look at cold, hard facts when it comes to the intangibles (career, money, security in the future), whereas guys think more about the tangible stuff (what does she look like, is she fun, do I like spending time with her?). This causes guys to get their hearts broken more because they are losing something major in the short term, whereas girls are living more in the future. That's just my 2 cents anyways....my personal count kinda proves that I know nothing about women. Oh, and my count is 2 to 1 in the negative.
Funny you mention this ... I ran into your ex the other day and she told me to tell you ... Spoiler Sorry!!!
I know you're talking about when you were a kid but I never understood how that best friend of the opposite sex thing works. Never had one, never been one. I just couldn't fathom spending enough time with a specific woman for them to consider me a best friend without being more than a friend. How does that work?
In my life I have broken 7 hearts and had my heart broken 3 times. I am actually recovering from a broken heart as I type this. I always used to freak out about karma, and realizing that I hurt so many women. I would always get scared that it would come back and bite me in the ass. Out of the 7 hearts I broke 5 of those women were really beautiful people. Unfortunately you can't make yourself fall in love with someone. The 3 times I had my heartbroken, including this most recent one, were all such valuable life experiences. I reccommend heart break to anyone. You will learn so much about yourself and life in general as well as become stronger, wiser and hopefully more prepared for the next relationship. If you don't its not a good thing.
I can't believe how many here actually felt compelled to open up and seriously respond to this thread... = inspiration
MOTHER FALCON AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE MY NEW FAVORITE POSTER!!!!!!!! I OWE YOU A ST. ARNOLD'S CHRISTMAS ALE FOR THIS GEM!!!!
I haven't broken any, but mine's been broken once. It's cool, though. I got ripped in four weeks, and she took me back.
are you my wife??? she has a very similar story. i'd like to point out though.....I WIN!!! SHE'S WITH ME!!!
One, a rather chubby girl that asked me out in HS my freshman year (I admire the guts in retrospect). As my karmic reward I grew up to be a fatty. As an emotionally stunted narcissist, I don't believe I have ever been on the receiving end of a heart-breaking.
You have to remember that I'm bi-sexual, so its same way that I have female best friends without being more than a friend. There's just something missing from that person (i.e. not physically attracted to them, no chemistry, etc.) to let me know that we are not good for each other romantically, but I can still share a strong emotional/psychological bond with them. Maybe you tend to only get close/open up to women whom you would deem a suitable romantic partner. It does seem, to me at least, that men are more guarded about who they "let in", while women are more forthcoming emotionally.
not all.. I would say.. not even a good majority.. plenty of ten times more guarded emotionally, hesitant, doubtful.. than men..
