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Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by CometsWin, Dec 27, 2013.

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How long after someone's marriage can you ask someone out?

  1. Three months

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    31.0%
  2. Six months

    9 vote(s)
    21.4%
  3. One year

    5 vote(s)
    11.9%
  4. Go away creeper

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    35.7%
  1. bigtexxx

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    having to seek clutchfans' advice on asking out a divorcee with teenage kids?

    grow a pair or deal with your fate of being forever alone
     
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  2. dragician

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    if you're in a hurry, ask her in.
     
  3. James Gabriel

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    Ask her to marry you....
     
  5. CCorn

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    She's vulnerable. Time to strike like a cobra.
     
  6. Houstunna

    Houstunna Mr Graphix
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    Causally ask her out.

    "I'm gonna be ______ (insert location), you're welcome to join".

    and/or

    Casually introduce a different woman in your conversations, and see how she reacts.
     
  7. Houstunna

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    Better yet, casually introduce this very topic to her... "I saw an article in a magazine", "overheard a conversation", etc.

    Then, see her response.
     
  8. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Following me around like a jilted ho. :grin:

    Insert the tired "dominating your emotions and controlling your thoughts" tag line. Clown show is slipping. Bahahahaha!
     
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    It's definitely number three. One significant problem I see is that she had a kid at 18 and married at 19. She's early thirties and she never had a chance to go out and go nuts which is why I think she goes out a lot now. So I think she's in for a couple years of playing the field before she's ready to be in a serious situation again. It's a tricky situation, not looking to be a rebound.
     
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    Not necessarily true. U said she stayed with the husband longer than she should have. So that shows she is committed. Treat her right if you get a shot, and she will stay with you, not continue to look. Simple as that.
     
  11. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Thanks, I appreciate a woman's point of view.
     
  12. bigtexxx

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    so, OP, are you clapping cheeks right now?

    Or did you queef out and not call her tonight
     
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    And between Christmas and New Year, no less.
     
  15. K-Low_4_Prez

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  16. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Definitely creepy that you're so interested in my love life. Step back, brah. I don't roll that way.
     
  17. CometsWin

    CometsWin Breaker Breaker One Nine

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    Weak.
     
  18. AroundTheWorld

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    CometsWin projecting his own issues on others:

     
  19. bigtexxx

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    You threw it out for everybody to see and comment on by starting this thread.
     
  20. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    Here is a novel concept - ASK HER.

    Say that you really would like to ask her out, but only when she is comfortable.

    DD
     

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