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How long to do you date until it is..

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Luckkky, Jul 25, 2012.

  1. Big MAK

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    My wife and I had dated in college, then post college, for a total of 5 years before I asked.

    No need to rush into anything, even if she is pushing it. There's plenty of time to spend the rest of your lives together.
     
  2. RocketManJosh

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    The real answer is when you know the time is right ... Don't worry about what you think others think is the "right" time

    I dated my wife for 2 years, and then had a 1 year engagement before being married. So far so good with our 7 year anniversary on Monday.
     
  3. Rasputin12

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    Hand her this, and walk away.

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  4. Deckard

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    I knew my S.O. for 4 years because taking the plunge, and we lived together, off and on, for much of that. I think living together first is a good idea. Other than that, I've got nothing for you.
     
  5. QdoubleA

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    Then will you start threads like "I miss wife! :("
     
  6. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    Dated a bit over a year before deciding to get married. Married when we were 22. Been married for 32 years and counting. Depends on the couple.
     
  7. wreck

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    Is her mom too skinny? That is also a factor in this.
     
  8. Jontro

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    Too soon. I say wait it out for at least 3 more years.
     
  9. sammy

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    It's different for everyone. Some people know right away.
     
  10. Rock3t Man

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    Im going on dating 8 years, it's whenever you feel it
     
  11. Jontro

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    Too soon. I say wait it out for at least 3 more years.
     
  12. Jturbofuel

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    Never don't you know marriage is the leading cause of divorce.
     
  13. Bleeding Red

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    Simple. she hot enough to be stuck with while not a bit** driving you crazy on daily basis? They good at hiding it until you give them the max contract then you realize you're stuck with a Tmac :p why long term contract when you can get playing time for free
     
  14. KingCheetah

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    Did she change her relationship status back? If so you're gold.
     
  15. Deckard

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    It definitely depends on the couple. I wonder why folks expect to find an answer here to questions like this, but I guess we should be flattered that they think it's at least a possibility. My own parents met in high school. My Dad was a senior, and Mom was a sophomore at the time. Dad saw her across the room at a party and told his best friend, "That's the girl I'm going to marry." Yes, it sounds like a scene in a movie, but it's a true story. They never lived together, dating until Pearl Harbor, became engaged right away after the attack, and married 3 months later, just before Dad enlisted in the Navy. Their marriage lasted until he passed away 42 years later. So time is relative. Some people know at "hello."
     
  16. rezdawg

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    11 months for me...Im 32...she's 32...we both know what we want.
     
  17. mvpcrossxover

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    i like ur sig :p:grin:

    honestly, no idea. don't even know why i'm in this thread. too young to be here
     
  18. slcrocket

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    Different for everybody...I proposed at two weeks. It worked for us, but I don't recommend it. :)
     
  19. david_rocket

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    At least 3 years, and you should live together a few months first.
     

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