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How long do you wait for a girl to respond to a text message before you give up?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by TheRealist137, Feb 7, 2012.

  1. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    I suspect I have been happily married longer than you've been alive (unless you are older than 32).
     
  2. Big MAK

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    You are correct. Which probably means you stopped dating before the internet and cell phones. While you may be a great resource for marriage advise, leave the dating advise to someone who has been on a first date in the past 3 decades.

    Just giving you a hard time. Congrats on your marriage, hopefully my soon to be wife and I will be as happy as you two come 2044.
     
  3. ima_drummer2k

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    [CF relationship thread template post]

    Grow a pair, quit overthinking everything, forget about her and move on.

    [/CF relationship thread template post]
     
  4. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    That being said, if my wife had told me to use smoke signals instead of the telegraph, I would have complied.
     
  5. v3.0

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    [alternate CF relationship thread template post]

    pics or GTFO

    [/alternate CF relationship thread template post]
     
  6. arno_ed

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    Wait and you actuially listen to what the people on this forum tell you to do:eek:.

    ps Congrats Big MAK, My marriage was almost 2 years ago already.
     
  7. Master Baiter

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    embed fail

    Nevermind...
     
  8. tmoney1101

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  9. DonkeyMagic

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    terrible terrible terrible.

    You missed the boat and blew it. Next time you get a girls number, be a man and call the damn girl. And when you do call ask her out on a specific day at a specific time...not this whole "whenever you're free" crap.
     
  10. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    If she is sick, showing up with flowers and chicken soup on her doorstep probably would help.

    DD
     
  11. ima_drummer2k

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    Yes, PLEASE do this.

    And let us know how it goes.
     
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  13. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    You guys are funny, texting, afraid to call, just go see her.....don't be afraid of rejection, who the **** cares.......and you might just get in there.

    Don't take advice from a bunch of guys who couldn't get laid in a mattress factory....be proactive.....go for it....

    And if it fails, big whup, next.

    DD
     
  14. updawg

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    Great way to get back in since you texted your way out
     
  15. RoxSqaud

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    Isn't it crazy.

    ...how this is the worst possible thing he could ever do.
     
  16. DonkeyMagic

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    so true. Actually going to see someone?! that's crazy talk!

    It would certainly make up for how much the OP has botched this whole ordeal.
     
  17. CCorn

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    I always think what would John Hughes do.
     
  18. TheRealist137

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    See I thought about doing that but if she is just using being sick as an excuse it would just be really awkward, plus I don't know where she lives anyway. See if she had called me and apologized I would be more inclined to believe she really is sick and I might have done that.

    I really think this girl is just avoiding me but even if she weren't going out of her way to avoid me she definitely hasn't shown any signs of true interest in me so I'm just going to step off and move on. I might consider calling her once more in the future, but at this point I am definitely going to just move on to the next one.
     
  19. what

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    I'll just say that some of you who hold what a woman says as your blood covenant need to get real. That: If she waivers even once on what she's told you, she is attacking your manhood and you need to find another chick this instant to stick your parts into, how do you even find chicks with this attitude?

    This just makes me cringe. Oh yeah, and as romantic as DD posts sounds. I'd skip the whole chicken soup thing. Chivalry is dead for a REASON. Because Chivalry is read by chicks as being a desperate guy.
     
  20. ima_drummer2k

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    Yeah, because a girl really gets turned on when some guy she's been trying to get rid of for weeks now inexplicably shows up at her door with soup and flowers.

    No, that's not pathetic (or creepy) at all. Amirite ladies of the bbs?
     

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