Yea post Mr. "people want to talk to me" Mr. "oh, and being a good looking guy doesn't hurt" Ha! ha ! ha! I'm just kidn' , again. Your probaly better lookin than Drewdog
I was wondering when someone was gonna chime in with a Swingers reference. Just remember, Trent actually said he would wait 6 days before calling the beautiful baby.
ROFL!! that was my plan, Gene!! nah, she quit drinking for new years. maybe i can corrupt her, though, and make her compromise her values. men are such dogs. woof! ...oh, and i will never, ever, ever do the YoYao! who could compare with such a man? i'll save myself the humiliation.
Coming into this late, as usual... 1st, I didn't answer...Because I don't even believe in stereotypical dating, let alone dating rules. Do whatever you feel like, and don't worry about what impression you'll make. If you want to call her that day, call her that day. Nothing good is built on deception, and eventually it tends to destroy. As they say, just be yourself. 2nd...Gene...totally disagree. It was like that for a long time, but it has totally changed. Guys get hit on all the time now. I managed a bar for a few years, and saw it all the time. The social dynamic has changed, especially at clubs. Women are a hell of a lot more aggresive than I am at clubs, because I would never get together with a woman I met in one...my usual response when getting hit on in a club, especially a loud one, is to lean in and half yell ( as if I can barely hear her, often true) " I'm sorry...your hopes and dreams are what? " Somethimes they take the hint, somethimes not. I'll dance with a hot girl in a bar, but that's about it. I am not hormonally inbalanced, get laid more than I'm gonna discuss here, but 3 might be more accurate than I'd like to admit. I do work out, although not so much a body builder, and I did model for a few years, so I probably have a higher than average physical self-awareness, for a guy. I don't preen in front of mirrors, but I am probably usually aware that my appearance is a factor. Last thing...verse...if you're at all like me, prepare to be a little dissapointed when you see her again. I am only saying this because I know that, for myself, rainstorms, blizzards, windstorms...any kind of extreme weather usually gets my engine going, on a pseudo romantic level...not a sex thing,but it could turn into that...it's more that it makes me feel connected to others around me, as though we're sort of sharing an intimacy, and at the same time I always feels extremely alive and electric during storms. So it may have, if you are like me at all, heightened the attraction level/chemistry a bit more than it would otherwise.
MacBeth, i have this theory that goes like this... when people meet, no matter who initiates it, both parties are usually presenting the best side imaginable...accentuating all of their positives and ignoring any remotely resembling a negative. this is the "representative"...the PR man/woman, if you will. this person is basically promoting, relating, and relaying information that they believe fits in with your ideals and expectations. some "representative" are good, some not so good. ALL of them are on short term contracts, though. once, the "representative" gets fired, you get to see the real person. i do my best not to send my representative. of course, i don't come out an display all my negatives initially either, but i don't pretend to be void of vices. as for disappointments, heh... yeah, i'm a weather oriented person, as well. unlike most, i enjoy a good rainstorm...especially afterwards...particularly if you're anywhere remotely close to magnolia trees. the smell is intoxicating. i don't expect her to be the siren that she was before, simply because she was wet from the rain; and to me there is very, very little more alluring than this. so, unless it rains again on friday night, i doubt she'll be the same. that vida booty was not rain induced, though. last, thanks for the comments, regarding women and aggressiveness. i understand why Gene Peterson said that my comments sounded conceited. but it really is not. the reality is that women today are absolutely comfortable with approaching men...particularly if they've seen you before and you are generally approachable (attitude and aesthetics). the funny thing is that i, 95% of the time, turn women away that approach me. especially if they start with classic "lines". my attitude is just "sit down, relax, and let's have a good time". no pretenses, strings, ulterior motives, etc. most people appreciate that, and are quick to befriend me because of it.
Just doin my job as an old dude. . Verse may be better looking but real-life women find confidence, humor and sincerity desirable too. (and I don't mean that grab your nuts, hip-hop bravado. I mean that comfortable with yourself, I can do my job, I can take care of a family, I'm living right confidence) Carry on
Gene Peterson, shooooot. Drewdog may have all of that: confidence, humor and sincerity plus the good looks. never know... oh, and do you find the "grab your nuts hip hop bravado" as annoying, superficial, and entirely plastic as i do? geezus. SmeggySmeg, bro (or should i say mate), thank you for posting that again. and, yes, i am correct in my comparison of posteriors. i need to find out if it's natural or enhanced, though.
