How do you tell someone their 9-year-old is an a-hole?

Think he needs a little of this

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THIS!!!

lol
Just kidding. . but not really


I agree with Swoly . . .Address it with the parents
If that means we no longer friends. . . .

I think Curly Bill Said it best


Rocket River

 

It WILL do good [waves hand across]. You CAN help other people become good [waves finger across]. This is the JEDI way.

The act of you letting them stay in your circle of friends means you're condoning their negligent parenting. Be my guest.

This is CORRECT.

 

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I think someone has given you the best advice earlier in this thread already. Just move away. Move away from the nightmare as soon as possible. In order to have a peace of mind that they cannot easily reach you ever again, move to another state as far away as possible. If you are in Texas now, move to Alaska. Start house shopping today. Please keep us informed of the development.

 

an open hand is mightier than a thousand fists.

 

wait, your son is best friends with a prick. Why else would he be over to your house all the time,,, unless ... nah, can't be, nevermind.

 

Ask him if he ever heard of a muhfuggin Switch.

 

How to make him feel unwelcome: as the man of the house you answer the door when someone knocks. Give him that wtf just got out of bed do you want look every time you do and then close the door without saying anything. Then scream that kid is here again to your son loud enough so he can hear it.

Another thing, I would not use not seeing him as punishment. Either he is bad enough to be banished or not. If you do, you would have to trust your son enough to ignore him on the school bus every morning or you will have to take your son to school and pick him up for a while to get the message across.

 

Many years ago, I told my boss' daughter she was a brat, to her face, and in front of him. I quit on the spot when my boss took me to the restroom and threatened to whip my ass if I ever called his daughter a brat. I told him to do something about his brat as I walked out the door.

She was like 12, but she was a pain in the ass. Would run around the restaurant, telling servers that her dad would fire them if they didn't do as she said.

I had had enough of that place anyways, and had already put in my two weeks. When I see bratty children at the store, and parents doing nothing about it, I just stare at the parent. I actually do this for all stupid people. Like when people take 20 items to the 10 item or less line...I just stand there with my few items, counting with my lips, then looking at the person, then back to the items, then the person....it makes them super uncomfortable....I am kind of a dick, aren't I? lol

 

It means there is more than one way to parent, and I accept that it is their kid, and believe that having my kids exposed to some that aren't parented well gives you opportunity to show them the ramifications of those actions.

Parents have the right to raise their kids how they like, as long as it is not dangerous - they can do like they please, I have many different friends that have differing viewpoints on how children should be raised, makes for a well rounded up bringing for kids to be exposed to that.

DD

 

Film something "*******-ish" he does and then make a thug life video out of it.

On second thought, this might encourage him...

 

Play clear favorites with your son when he is around. Find out what he really likes. When he is around, give it to your son but not him. Soon you will be the ******* father and he will not want to come around.

 

Tell the kid you banged his mom.

 

gotta disagree with you bro. every parent I know (disciplinarian or laid back) is pretty territorial about their kid. either OP straight comes out and says something to the parents, or he bite his tongue and display his feelings in any manner.

 

Ill just leave this here. Dissect however you may sir.

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Go hire the biggest 5th grader in your neighborhood to kick his ass.

 

Example of video?

 

If his wife is anything like Debra, she won't admit RAY was right all along. That was the only thing missing from that episode.

Cool. So we agree. I stopped there because that is the point I'm trying to make. Thanks.

 

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