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How do you handle Self Promotion

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Rocket River, Oct 12, 2011.

  1. AroundTheWorld

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    How do
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    self-victimization?
     
  2. Dairy Ashford

    Dairy Ashford Member

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    Talent is rare, subjective and actually quite inefficient for most managers to evaluate and rank amongst their staff. They just want people who can make decisions, rationalize screwups, cultivate relationships and remind them of themselves twenty years ago.
     
  3. xcrunner51

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    I disagree with that on many levels.

    1) Their time table to notice your ability may not match your own. Thus you may miss opportunities while you're waiting for them to notice you.
    2) People may notice, but unless you make them actually act on it instead of just saying "hey that guy's good at that" they may not actually do anything to help you.
    3) Other people are self-promoting while you're not, you're losing out.
     
  4. Buck Turgidson

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    It ain't bragging if it's true.

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  5. Rocket River

    Rocket River Member

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    Sounds good
    but
    In practice it seems to rarely work that way

    Rocket River
     
  6. thadeus

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    I just let the ladies promote me.
     
  7. Rocket River

    Rocket River Member

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    Nice Info in this thread. Thanks

    Rocket River
    A work in progress
     
  8. Jontro

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    Wear loud colors, glitter and all that. Once you get noticed, you're on your own.
     
  9. Yonkers

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    I'd be curious what the poll would show for:

    1. Promote yourself.
    1a. If so, what is your profession and title in company.

    2. Do not promote yourself.
    2a. If so, what is your profession and title in company.


    I'd be curious, which one wins out. From what I see in the corporate world... promote yourself. Not everyone will like it, but the likelihood of you moving up high is better. The guys in the top positions are very good politically. Don't mean people like them. But the right people do.
     
  10. Invisible Fan

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    I like the docs and analytics suggestion. Put down hard facts on how much you saved the company or earned for them. Promote this occasionally to your boss and others (genuinely) while you're at it.

    if you don't talk to or like your boss, you still have to convey to him that you're covering his ass and making him look good. Even if he knows it, it's not his job to remember that during raise time. He probably worried about his own review or some squeaky wheel promoting himself
     
  11. Invisible Fan

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    a fabulous raise is in store for you.
     
  12. Rocket River

    Rocket River Member

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    Pretty much
    Also . . . I think if you show you are TOO VALUABLE to him
    he will want to KEEP you there to keep covering his ass

    It is a dicey and prickly situation

    Rocket River
     
  13. Shroopy2

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    This same exact issue has just come up with me also last month. I never found the right terminology to convey it to others. Just been feeling a sense of discomfort and was trying to analyze and put the pieces together.

    But thats what it is - Self Deprecating vs Self Promotion.
    Self promotion has negative connotations, so I guess its more MARKETING ONESELF.

    Self deprecating does NOT work in getting ahead because it can mean self-MUTING.

    Its not only that self promoters just enhance their own standing. Its also that they CAN craft YOUR own image FOR you to the others in the workplace without your involvement. In order for some worms to get ahead, they WILL MARGINALIZE YOU to put themselves in a better light.

    While you're "staying in your lane", they're doing whatever they can to be at the top of the hill. It IS arrogance. But to management it'll look like its being "punctual" and "committed".
     
  14. Rocket River

    Rocket River Member

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    It is like being in traffic . . .a long line of cars
    Some *SShole rolls by you going 50 on the shoulder [not a real lane].
    You *KNOW* some sorry punk is going to LET HIM IN about a mile ahead
    He has gotten ahead . .. you could do the same
    but you are not an *sshole!

    Rocket River
     
  15. rimrocker

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    In my line of work, self-promoters are toxic and avoided at all costs. Calm, humble, analytical, and decisive are what's important. If someone comes along and it's all about them, then nobody will work with them.
     

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