How do you handle a male friend saying to you...

Your question is how I handle it if he were to say "I love you" to me. I guess it would depend on the circumstance.

If he were to say "I love you" if I just save his life, I'd say, "I love you, too, man."

If he were to stare at me for a long time after having a couple beers (or in my case, Zimas or Apple Smirnoffs) and says "I love you", I would say "I don't."

 

One time... at band camp... I played the dirty trombone

 

I hope it's the 4th referenced definition or that you're a girl.

 

Ha ha look at this urban dictionary entry.

 

The power of 3814!

 

this is the right alfamale answer to any of this, from male or female

 

UrbanDictionary.com is blocked at my school...what does it say?

 

And you are all having a pillow fight in your underwear when this happens, right?

 

It says:

EDIT: Sorry for the double post.

 

ahhh...haha.

 

ummm....No.

 

can't help but think of this after all of your manly responses

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Start licking your lips uncontrolably.

 

My roomate my first year of college had been a good friend of mine for many years. One day I come home and tell him I made a 90 something on a final. He tells me that's great and gives me a hug, I thought nothing of it. Then he kissed me on the cheek......I stepped back and just walked off.....








I haven't spoken to or seen him since.

Pugs

 

And you carry it with you to this day.

 

Good lord. What a bunch of guys worried about their manliness. I know fellows that have been good friends, very good friends since early in grade school. Literally friends for 50 years. Of course I love them. I would do anything for them, if they were in a bind. I've been there for them when they've lost parents and siblings, when they were dumped by girlfriends. When they went through a divorce. One very old friend was dumped by a chick he cared deeply for, and when he asked why, she told him that she had decided she was gay. I kid you not. It was straight out of a Seinfeld episode, only it happened years before that storyline ever occurred.

A fellow is a proper scrub if he doesn't love his best friends.

 

Yes, but telling your best male friends you love them is akin to telling your hot female friends you'd gladly bonk them - unnecessary, potentially embarrassing, and means zip if you don't actually do something about it

 

Are you serious? I have some Italian friends who do that all the time. It's sort of weird to me, but no big deal.

 

Han Solo is such a pimp...

 

you had me at hello/