That is kinda ghey, IMO, but of course I have no trouble saying "i love u" to a true friend, in a non-gay kinda way...There is that akwardness, but in the end, its good to have close friends...I would have no trouble saying this to a girl who is just a friend...
Yeah my friend everytime we hang up on the phone he says okay man later, i love you dude. Kind of awkward...
It's like the difference between a "real" hug and a "man" hug. A real hug is the kind given to relatives, girlfriends or other guys ONLY when in a very emotional moment - death in the family, winning the Super Bowl, hitting a game winning shot, etc. A "man" hug is the kind where you shake hands and hug with the off arm. That's acceptable as a greeting or a goodbye. I think "I love you" is fine as long as it is extremely casual ("I love you, man" with a laugh) or in an emotional moment ("You're like a brother to me...I love you"). Saying it too often can get a little strange...not that there's anything wrong with that.
I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I love you, Jeff I think it's pretty funny how we allow ourselves to feel the fear emotion, when love expressed. Could it be related to trust, such as: I don't trust this guy and how he wants my kick-ass love. Maybe he hasn't earned it yet. -OR- I don't trust myself. Too much of this and I might have to mount this awesome man. It's just not a very common thing among guys. Too many things on the outside have prevented us from sharing mutual feelings. It's tough to do it, while maintaining the macho disposition. Guy#1: I love you, man Guy#2: Coo I blame MTV
I knew several guys at my old church that would tell each other they loved them. "Brothers in Christ"..."I love you so much"...yada yada.
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You can always say "back atcha, kid". Thats what I said to the last guy I wasn't dating who said it to me. I dunno guys are weird about expressing love. I say "love ya babes" to my friends all the time but then I'm a girl so its not really that weird.
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