how do you get over her?

He digs the girl and she is blowing him off. That's not an easy thing to deal with. Have you ever been in love with someone and find out that they don't feel the same about you? It sucks. Maybe you have been through it enough to just put it behind you, but don't expect others to be that easy.

Let the guy pine a little. I don't see any harm in it. There are plenty of people here to offer up advice to those that suffer through this kind of stuff.

 

Um...did you even read my post? I clearly stated:

 

If you talk to your real friends they say forget her and then make fun of you about crying over some girl. At least here you some anonymity

 

man....i think you're just p***y whipped

 

Sounds to me like you need some better friends?

 

Um, this is exactly why this thread was started. To get the kind of advice you just gave. All that complaining and yet you contributed just as much to helping the thread starter as anyone else.

And you just happen to be a poster on a Rockets message board. Wierd.

 

Not to mention your signature is so totally a rip off of another famous poster's

 

Time heals all wounds.

But finding a hotter girl speeds up the process.

 

Get a fleshlight.

 

Bah...a message board shouldn't be replacement for a friend to whom you can actually talk. Call me old-fashioned (or just plain old), but posting on a message board about personal struggles is akin to walking into a public place and ranting to a group of strangers.

Yes, it's possible to get advice on the internet, but in no way should it be the only communicative outlet in a person's life. On the other hand, if a person has already other ways to vent, why is it even necessary to tell a bunch of strangers on the internet his/her problems? This little "catch-22" is why I don't understand or condone asking for advice on a huge public BBS like this one...especially when it's advice you can easily get from someone close to you.

moes, if you're talking about my sig, the word "rediculous" has been a huge pet peeve of mine for years. I see the word misspelled on this site more than I do anywhere else, so I decided to put it in my sig. It's not meant to be creative or original. Geez, talk about nitpicking the most irrelevant and random things.

 

Worth quoting. It's the only thing that will make the "pain", whether real or perceived, go away.

 

To get the most advice during a rough spot. Or even to get a laugh. Not sure why you're making a big deal out of someone else's problem.

You won't ask for personal advice on this board. We get that.

 

Hey, whatever floats his boat. I'm just trying to explain my viewpoint since people keep commenting on (and apparently misinterpreting) things I've said.

 

You sound like a very happy person.

What was I thinking?

 

Mike: How did you get over it? I mean, how long did it take?

Rob: Sometimes it still hurts. You know how it is man, it's like you wake up everyday and it hurts a little bit less, and you wake up one day and it doesn't hurt at all. And the funny thing is that, this is kinda weird, but it's like, it's like, you almost miss that pain.

 

Just ask the Gas and Sip Guys:


Joe: Lloyd, man, no babe is worth it. Yo, hang with us man. We'll teach you Bibles full of truth.

Denny: Man, all you gotta do is find a girl that looks just like her, nail her, and then dump her, man. Get her off your mind.

Mark: Your only mistake is that you didn't dump her first. Diane Court is a show pony. You need a stallion, my friend. Walk with us, and you walk tall.

Luke: b****es, man.....

 

If you truly love(d) someone, I'm not sure if you can ever fully get over them, in the sense that you never miss them.

On paper, I should be happier with my current girlfriend. She's prettier than my ex. She's much nicer to me. We have better conversations. She buys me more things. She ****s me more. She gives me more space... but I still can't shake the old one and the connection we had.

 

please....grow a pair.

 

Have a blessed evening.