Get a tattoo of her face on your chest then send her a picture of it when its freshly done. Then buy a rifle and some binoculars and travel to where she is and camp out about 40-50 yards from her window and .....wait. oh and listen to ALOT of John Mayer music... that will really get that rifle going. I recommend, "Dreaming with a Broken Heart" "Slow Dancing in a Burning Room" and my personal favorite "Covered in Rain"
It is always difficult to get over a girl that you still love. But like others have said: 1 time is the best healer. 2 go out and have fun with friends. 3 think about the bad things of the girl. 4 Avoid asking for advice on here. 1 and 2 are the most importent.
that is so stupid. people underestimate pasox2. MadMax has an agenda...pasox2 does not. Yet he probably, overall agrees with you, despite the fact he is the best dancer on this bbs. do not underestimate pasox2's ability to steal your women and leave you asking him how he did it.
Agreed...That was the reason the girl from Houston told me...I kind of like the distance because in all honestly, I'm a selfish person and like my space... The only real way to get over a girl is to go out and be with a lot of them...Even then, it's only temporary... I'm suppose to go on a date tonight, but we haven't talked in a couple of days so I'll back out and go to Houston instead...We've been talking, but we haven't made time for each other so what's the point...I'm lazy that way...
I'm offended that you would use such a derogatory term for a woman. What if that was your mom, sister, or daughter. I'm going to go burn some incense and say a prayer.
Let her go. Time will heal your wounds. I was the same way, with my ex and it just weirds her out when you keep pressing the issue. In my case, I was co-dependant and didn't even know it. I recommend staying single for at least a few months and figure it out. Don't go rushing into other relationships or else you might end up with a psycho elementary school nurse. Trust me on this. Maybe later things will be different, but let her make that decision, since you have already made yours. Take care of you, first and let the girl work her stuff out on her own.
arno-ed had some good advice read his post again. At the time you would normally call give her the nightly call make sure that you are out with friends doing something you normally love. Don't expect to find the same pleasure in it because your mind will be distracted by the girl. But it should be enough to keep you from calling. I don't know if you like video games, but find one that will take a lot of time to complete and is very engaging. Try and spend more time with friends. If you talk to them about the girl be sensitive to when they are getting tired of hearing and giving advice. That is a good barometer of when you should occupy your mind with other tasks. Hell, occupy your mind with other tasks as much as possible, and do something fun with friends. Exercise is great, but try and find team sports or even doubles tennis. That way other people will count on you, and you won't wuss out and run call her. It will burn up some energy and make you feel good about yourself. If you can spread yourself around with different friends, or different groups of friends because you don't want to burn out with anyone. You may talk with another female friend but with the rules that you don't talk about the girl you are missing, and you don't think romantically of the girl you are talking about(at least not yet. That may come later, but probably won't.) Just talk to the female as a friend. That will help demystify the gender as a whole a little bit. You will see them as regular human beings instead of on some pedestal or on another plane that you can't quite figure out. Again hang out with friends, play video games, go see a live band in a club. Find a couple different bands, and try and see at least one of them as often as possible. That will present new social possibilities. Don't call the girl, whatever it takes. You may return her call only every other time she calls. Some people will tell you that booze won't help. But for some reason, it does help with me. And it you don't have to be totally drunk or anything. Good luck.
When did the Hangout turn into a heart-on-my-sleeve, teenage-angst, "let's talk about our feelings," "I want some cheese with my whine" forum?
Insensitive as in how? There have been threads started about divorces and impending legal battles in the past. I posted supportively. There have also been threads started about illnesses (both terminal and non-terminal). I was also supportive then. There have been threads about accidents or loved ones who've passed away. I voiced my support then as well. A thread like this however, and every other thread similar to it that's sprung up the past year border on ridiculous. How do you get over someone for whom you have feelings? It's very simple: suck it up and do it. Now, I'm not saying it's going to be easy, nor am I saying it won't take time. However, starting a thread with a three-line post simply saying, "Aww...my heart is broken, what do I do now?" accomplishes absolutely nothing. All it does is contribute to an endless cycle of self-pity. If a person were serious about getting over someone, he/she would do something proactive, not sit around lamenting. To the topic creator: No, I'm not trying to be an ass. It's just "tough love." Go out and do something. Find hobbies. Stop wallowing and pining. It'll only make you feel worse. If you need to talk to people, talk to your friends...not a bunch of Rockets fans on a message board.
