Honestly, you sound like a huge a$$hole and terrible partner. Your girlfriend has principles and seems to be a genuine person. Respect her values and don't try to push her into bad things. Change your ways or let go of your girl, you're no good for her. And yes, like Jamers said, if I was her father and would hear of this I'd beat the crap out of you.
True relationships are about compromise and respect, not about manipulation and/or coercion. From your own story, it already sounds like she's compromising by tolerating your smoking. What are you doing to narrow the gap? If you're just trying to force her to live the lifestyle you want to live and not offering her anything in return, any long term relationship is already doomed.
Going for too much, brah. At least with the Canadian bus stop stalker and spacecitykid their threads had some verisimilitude.
Girls that try to restrict you from smoking and also hate the smell of it will probably never try it.
I'm scrolling through this thread and every comment is making me LOL. This is rich guys. I can't even tell who's being serious or sarcastic. Too funny haha.
OP is being sarcastic. Some responses seem to not get this... Anyway, I've found that the best girlfriends are the ones that are totally okay with you smoking weed but do not themselves smoke. That way your girlfriend can make you not be lazy by suggesting you go outdoors while also laughing at all of your stoned jokes and assuming that you are a genius due to your strangeness.
You sound young so I'll give you that. But having a sweetie sweet on sweet leaf is a sweet-ass bonus. Pushing altered states is stupid, really. So stop that. If this is that important to you, get another girl for the ganja ride.
This will be a GREAT marriage. NOT. Looks like you need a smoking club or a weed-smoking boyfriend, not a girlfriend. Good luck.
OP is obviously a high schooler guys. My advice to you is smoke weed with another chick. You're gf will get jealous and feel left out. She'll want to smoke weed with you to see what the fuss is about after that LOL
Firstly you have a dependence issue. If you need to alter your physical state on a daily basis you have some deep seeded (lulz) issues that you need to speak to someone about. I'm going to guess you are very young and in maybe your first real serious relationship. There is no bigger high than first love, but in most cases your inexperience and uncertainty about your future have you too emotionally invested in her. You both sound like a blossoming codependence. You do not want her to smoke weed with you as much as you crave for her acceptance and understanding of why you do it. You want her to get on your level, but in reality if she does start to smoke and becomes dependent like you, that is only a sign that both of you are way too insecure to be ina committed relationship. My advice to you is to become single and involved with finding out everything about yourself rather than trying to put your problems on someone else. That road is doomed to fail.
