OP, you're only 19 so don't worry about it right now. Work on improving your health/fitness/business, confidence and finances. Let all these other clowns go to parties, smoke pot and have random hookups. You'll be the guy running a business in 5-7 years and these losers will be the ones asking you for a job. I met my wife when I was 33 and married when I was 34. I dated quite a bit before but I never allowed the relationships to get very serious because I spent most of my time building my business. Once I hit 30, I was financially independent and able to travel the world and I actually met my future wife while travelling abroad. My friends from my early 20s always gave me a hard time about working too much and being boring back in the day, but now they are all working dead in jobs, living check to check in cubicle world and I feel sorry for most of them but they weren't willing to make the sacrifices I made while in my 20s. If you build your wealth in your 20s and not get caught up in all the partying and materialism, then you can live your dreams and have true freedom in your 30's and beyond. Hell I'm 36 now and feel like my life is just starting. You have no idea how young you are and how many opportunities you have right now to make something of yourself. Once you do that, you'll build wealth and confidence and at that point getting women won't be an issue at all what so ever and you'll look back at this thread and seriously Laugh Out Loud. I applaud you for not getting caught up in the partying and time wasting that most people your age are into.
You sound like a judgmental douche... It's no wonder nobody likes you. Time to open your eyes, buddy.
Truth be told, soon to be father in law says; "If you look good, you feel good, if you feel good, you play good." Granted this is about golf, and I am not good at it, at all, but I believe it does work, in almost all social/business situations. I almost exclusively shop at Salvation Army on Wash ave, (I live so damn close) I have got so many name brands (banana rep. Polo, Lacoste, ect/not that brands or logos matter that much, but there is much to be said about a good pair of khakis) for under 8 dollars or so. Of course if there is something I no longer need, be it shirts, pants, furniture, I pay it forward. Just saying you could get a nice outfit for under 25 dollars easy, and those "new" clothes could help in your confidence in approaching strange women. But clothes are just a "get your foot in the door" thing. Personality, and ease of conversation are key. Ronnie need to tell you what cologne (or perfume? You lady killer) to wear....
Jeez dude. You know getting laid will keep those temper tantrums down? Why don't you spell out what you really want, or are you being coy and luring us to think what you supposedly want? And I'm telling you to get to know people more, but it seems like if people don't fit your preconceptions, then they're "unworthy" to you. That's totally fine because you can pretend not to care or give out vibes that you're not out to win any friends. Totally fine. What's this thread about again? Pride can be an interesting tool, but being alone is one helluva price to pay for it. Especially when you don't know when you're right.
I appreciate it. It is just something I am not interested in. I've never understood why people do things that they don't even like, but they do it anyways to fit in. I've always hated those people and I'm not willing to become someone I hate just because I want to "fit in." That's just flat out stupid, hence why I thought Invisble Fan's advice was pretty stupid. I wasn't angry when I wrote that, in fact, I was relatively calm. I don't know what your issue is. I told you what I want and that is a girlfriend and a girlfriend that isn't one of those party all the time type. The sad thing is that those are hard to find considering how the nation works today.
Par-tay... as we called it back in the dadburn two hundred aught two... and one.. You have to be able to be social in SOCIAL situations, even if you feel like you are a "sheepeople". This is what normies do, they have drinks, be it adult or not, and TALK to people. This is what you are missing I feel based off of the very tiny amount of info you have posted and even less that I have read. Just go out and interact with people...
Having drinks in like a bar or with a couple of friends while watching sports is not even close to teh same as drinking at some house party or raging or whatever these idiots do. Don't mind the first, I have a problem with the second.
Because you are better then those slack jawed beer drinking degenerates? Or you feel social inept when surrounded by large groups or people?
Because I don't like those type of situations (crowded, loud and ****ty music, doing activities I don't like, etc.), I suppose I don't like those people generally either, but that's not the main concern. There are jerk-offs everywhere.
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You don't offend me, you started the thread asking random people on the internet how to get "a women", I have, as have others tried to impart what limited (ronnie we need you) knowledge on the fairer sex. I think it is you that is offended that we didn't side with you, and your lack of forsight to see that you are the one who is (for lack of a better word) c0ck blocking yourself.. Just go out and have fun with someone you don't know and dont judge them for 30 hrs...
You didn't say that but you called those people you don't even know "jerk-offs" and "idiot". Your opinion sucks.
Umm, not really and I'm not sure who "we" is when I was just talking to Invisible Fan. Sure, his advice on going to parties and drinking was incredibly stupid, but I'm not offended. Why would I get offended if people agreed me on this? I know a lot of people aren't going to agree with me on this, because I know a lot of people are sheeps, have no opinions, and just like to party. I'm sure you and the other guy fit that bill. I stand by what I said. Girls that party and go drinking all the time are not what you would want in a girlfriend or wife, unless you are looking for miserable pain because there is a very very very high chance they will cheat on you, screw you over, and play all these stupid games with you. As the misc uses it.....Sloots gonna sloot.
"We" never appeared in my post to my knowledge. If you know that people will not agree with you on "forever alone" post (as you wanted, that I am sure, #sheeps #anxietytroopers). I mean who would want a GF that goes out and has fun in social settings with people, and heaven forbid... random guys and girls. I trust your opinion on "party" girls, you seem like a John Belushi, and have seen girl/w**** turn on there husbands so fast... Or you trust the person you love and have fun with them, adult drinks or not. Anyways I will lay with the women I love tonight, and Tmoney1101, get your suit, the wedding is only 3 months away...
