oh noes! it was supposed to be a hopeful "good luck out there OP" sign-off, not a flirty "why don't you hit me up in the DM's later". Troll or not, there's a lot of lurkers who read this board, & some who may be needing some of the genuine advice given in this thread or a nudge to seek counseling services.
If serious, that's what the OP needed. I know group therapy helped me. Life's too short to be caught up in emotional webs like that and while I agree with many of his point about the so called slutt.y/party girls and that culture in general there are still plenty of good people out there.
No disrespect but I hope like hell no young person listens to this advice. You'll be staring at a lifetime of mediocrity and debt. If you don't do anything else, please, please, plan. Plan to learn, plan to be healthy, even plan "free time" to enjoy life.
I think he's talking about planning how to have conversations with people. You should just let that happen, outside of your initial comment it's never going to happen like you plan it.
could be that OP is too far along. If so, go for it, be yourself unapologetically & see what the universe gives you Harvey Pekar found someone...
I was given 24 hours to cool off. I don't apologize to anyone for anything if I offended you. If you got offended, deal with it, because it's just my opinion. The only people that are offended in this thread are people that have gf or wives that are partiers or former partiers and you are upset that there is probably some truth to what I was saying. I was upset and I lashed out at Rocketsjudoka because I repeatedly told him and the rest of this site that I have no interest in partying or drinking, and what happens? These guys continue to tell me to try it out. You don't think it's rather frustrating that a bunch of people keep repeating the same thing and same advice, when I literally told them there is no chance it was going to happen? I'll give you an example of how it all ran down. Me - I don't like partying or drinking, no interest in that nor the people. Random in this thread - You should try it out, I'm sure you'll like it or meet the people Me - No, I don't like partying or drinking. Random - Yeah, but you should try it out. Me - I don't want to do it. Random - You'll meet some people you like, throw away your pride dude, you'll meet people Me - I have no interest in doing it Random - Just do it man So no, I'm not crazy, I'm just frustrated that a bunch of people could not understand that I have no interest in it and that I'm not doing it.
Going to bed soon. When I wake up, I will return to this thread. I hope to see more meltdowns and more of Optimal6 insulting everyone's wives.
Where the heck did I say that? Cause I absolutely do not recall saying as stupid as that. All I said was college girls who are party animals and get trashed every night or week at college parties are sluts. Do you even want to argue about that? I mean really? Unless you believe every girl is like that, every girl goes to parties every day or week and get flat out wasted, I didn't call out every girl because there are girls out there who are good people and barely drink. Those are the ones that I want.
That's what we should say to you. Because your feeble little mind believes only one thing for people, there's no other possibility in your head. And that's sad, and it will keep being that way, and you will spend New Year's every year on on your own.
My Advice: Go to parties and get ****ed up, be social. You sound like a boring little virgin. Unless you want some 300+ pound chick that plays world of warcraft, guess what? All the attractive chicks are at the parties finding dudes who are fun enough and have enough balls to be with them. Posting on this forum isn't going to get you any p***y. Go to a party, theres a reason everyone in your age group does it. It's ****ing great and the best place to get hookups/connections. Or you can stick to your beliefs in which you sit on a computer watching blurry pixels go at it, while I get the hot chicks. Your choice bro.
I don't need to say anything to help myself sleep at night. You really think I care if certain girls are sluts or not? I actually hope they aren't, but the reality is they are. You really think I want these hot girls to all be sluts? No, I don't, but it's reality, something you should consider living in.
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In case you missed it I told you several times not to go out drinking and partying if it made you uncomfortable. I even said it was a good thing that someone your age didn't do that. What I said was not to be judgmental about people who do. That said I stand by my advice. It sounds like you do have some issues and talking to a therapist will help.
Yes, I understand there will be a few people that party and drink that will be good people. I also understand that percentage is incredibly low. Finding a nice girl or the girl that I would want at a house party is like finding a black person at a high school in a city that is 99.9% white. So yes, maybe I will find one person that is like that, too bad the rest of the people are not and like I said, I play the percentages, they don't look good for me.
you know that ten year old kid who doesn't get invited to the birthday party? then goes around saying I DIDN'T WANT TO GO ANYWAYS, EVERYBODY IS SO STUPID. and then that starts a cycle, because who wants to hang around the bratty fun spoiler who hates everyone, so he gets left out of everything, and he only gets more bitter and more angry, and again lets everyone know that he would NEVER EVER HANG OUT WITH THOSE LOSERS? rough cycle. your bitterness is showing, OP. be sure to hide it well if you ever want any woman to have sex with you (getting over your severe madonna-w**** complex is another issue but given your reaction to advice in this thread, we can probably forget that).
Honestly, that's what I call a cool story bro. Such a riveting tale, I honestly copy and pasted it to word, saved on my hard drive, backed it up on a jump drive, drove to the bank, put the jump drive in the safe deposit box, and will leave it there until my kids turn about 12 (when they can actually state their age, and ask what it is I'm showing them), when I will pick it up, put it in an old USB drive reader and relay this cool story to them and tell them, "kids, this is what a cool story should look and sound like...not like the stories your generation tells.
