I think everyone's had that one big failed relationship that hurts like a mofo. Mine lasted for about a year even though I only dated the chick for like 3 months. Everyone handles everything differently, but you have to do things (work, exercise, go out with friends, games, etc.) to fill up your life to help you move on...the only thing that helps is time (at least for me). You might not get over her tomorrow or even next week, but you will eventually. It does help you realize something... you shouldn't get too emotionally involved with someone until it's pretty concrete that you both are a great match and are willing to spend a long time together...it has to be mutual...if it's only 1 way you're just setting yourself up.
So you guys think that even if she was a cheater and liar, she still doesnt deserve the harsh words i gave her because shes a woman, right?
Well if it makes you feel better, then do what you have to do. However, what do you truly want? Do you want to get back with this girl or not? If you do, then you need to let it be.
I'm a complete hypocrite chiming in on these threads because rarely do I follow my own advice (getting better at it as I get older), but here goes....it really doesn't matter what you want. People are individuals and will do what suits them best 99.9% of the time. She's doing just that and you'd probably do the same if the shoe was on the other foot. The best thing for you is to let go and move on. You can't consume yourself with what you wish she'd do (give you a response). Don't play the victim looking for pity. You'll just end up making things worse in the end and extend the hurt you're feeling right now. Remind yourself every time you want to contact her that you need to let go and move on. Maybe she'll come back one day and maybe she won't. What matters is your own mental and physical health and dwelling on what she did or might have done is not healthy for you. It may take awhile for the sting to go away, but it gets easier each day and you become a better, stronger person for it.
absolutely absolutely absolutely pathetic. She said "move on", so MOVE ON. Stop messaging her, stop sending apologies, stop posting about it on the internet and move the **** on! Learn from this and don't act this way in your next relationship - and never speak to your ex again. It's that simple.
I think based on the way you are acting, she was right about leaving you. Not trying to be harsh, but nobody wants to be with someone who acts like you say you acted in this situation. If she cheated on you then it's because she wanted someone else. Not because she's a ho.
If you are actually committed to moving on, you need to take control of the situation. You should have been the one to block her from facebook, phone, etc. Before jumping into another relationship, enjoy life & stay busy. Give it time. Work out. Better yourself. Matter of fact, make damn sure you love yourself.
Since ho is an abbreviation of w****, which is a synonym of prostitute, it is someone that has sex in exchange for money. So yes, pretty much a woman.
You’re going to look back and feel really embarrassed for acting this way. So be glad she cut off all means of contacting her because she’s saving you from further embarrassment. Breakups are hard, especially when infidelity is involved, but it gets better. Don’t waste your energy on someone who would do that to you, put it towards more productive things...And eventually being a strong, confident, successful person will attract someone better than you had -- and better than staying a wallowing, hot mess would. Good luck and feel better.
No bro, you shouldn't have said harsh words to her because that proves you still think about her, not because of her pwecious itty bitty feewings. If she's trampy, then why the hell do you still want to talk to her trampy ass? If she's a ho, then why the hell do you still want to affiliate yourself with her, even if only verbally? You degrade YOURSELF by showing HER that YOU still care. That's what this is about. Is she a ho? Is she a tramp? Is she a cheater and a liar? Then ignore the b****. Nothing good comes out of dealing with women like that. By doing what you did, you gave her the upper hand. You gave her validation and justification for her unsavory actions by proving yourself unworthy to her. Live and learn, bro.
To be honest, the real reason i said those things for her to realize it and maybe feel guilty even just a lil bit. She has it implanted in her head that she is a good girl, and i wanted to shove reality at her face.
I can say safely from personal experience, after you start down the insult path, they don't care even more. No matter how much truth you're throwing out there, she's just going to laugh at you and think you're the pathetic one. After all, she could go out at any hour of the day and get any 5 guys she wants to take her home and bang her, us guys can't say the same. Women really do hold a lot over us.
She wasn't ... everyone feels that way about there girlfriend. That is life... you will get over it. IT IS OVER.
