How Big Of A Role Does Personality Play In Women You Guys?

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If she's at least cute and you hit it off with her then go for it.

I've dated some pretty good looking girls that turned out to be major headaches. The girl I cared for the most was cute, but not drop dead gorgeous, but we just clicked perfectly.

Saying that, I don't go for it when someone tries to hook me up with a girl who's described as having a "great personality". That usually means they've either take up more space than I'd like or have a face for radio. Not trying to be shallow. I'd be lying if I said looks don't matter, but personality is huge. No pun intended there.

 

Answers might vary depending on age and how much money a person makes. An older and richer person won't mind a 9 or 10 with the personality of paper.

Me personally, in the end I'll downgrade on looks for more personality and other things. Such as if they support my interests without putting theirs in the way, if they can carry on conversation, do things around the house, can be good mothers, etc....

19 or 20 years old that stuff doesnt matter. Get as much hot tail as you can

 

I only go for women who have a great personality and looks that I'm attracted to. To only go for one and not the other is dumb IMO. You should have a balance, good looks and a good personality or I'd rather be single. No reason to settle for one or the other. Come on guys.

 

In there lies the answer. Sleep with her and then you will know all. Well not all but enough. If after you bone you have no desire to stay and cuddle then you're done. If you still have feelings afterwards it may be something.

 

"Giving the dog the bone" is so overrated in that regard. It's chemicals not heart that makes a person want to cuddle or not afterwards.

 

He's quoting American Psycho.

Adopting absolute rules for dating is stupid. And if you do adopt "rules," they should be based off your own experience. Preemptive screening is dumb, especially when it's based off advice from a message board after you post several sentences about your first date. Ask yourself what you want, and then ask yourself if she lines up with that. Any other question is off the mark.

 

The girl has to be attractive to me.

 

Being good looking is a prerequisite...

but you need personality to pass the class. That's my take on it.

 

As they age good looking girls get uglier, whereas average girls somehow seem to hold their looks.

Just keep that in mind....and another thing, anything in 19 or 20ish year old skin looks as good as it ever will.

DD

 

Dude, it's pretty easy: either you are physically attracted to her or not. Are you attracted enough to her to want to date her? If so, then what's the issue?

Also, just another thing to think about: sometimes being too alike can be a little annoying after a while. If she is sensitive, she may interpret you needing "me time" to play video games or just wanting to watch sports with your guy friends as you blowing her off.

 

But what about celebration sex?

 

no, doesnt work for me

 

I usually do it when I get home whether there is a win or loss. Win = happy sex. Loss = angry sex.

 

i would rather be with a chick who is super bad ass and ok looking, instead of dealing with a chick who is super hott with a fuked up personality

 

Looks opens the door. What's inside keeps you there!!

 

You said she isn't going to college. If you will/are going to college then that probably will turn into a problem for you.

fling - go for looks.

relationship - go for personality.

 

GO FOR THE HOTTEST CHICK PERIOD

here's a clue for you. chicks are not dudes. no matter how cool a chick seems to be she's still going to flip out on you eventually if you're hanging out too much with the guys, watching too many sports or looking at too much internet p*rn or PS3. dudes have this idea that if they get a cool ass chick they can just hang and it'll be like one of the guys but over a long term relationship even cool girls basically turn into every other chick... a lot of times the ugly chicks are cool simply because they have to in order to compete with hot chicks.

with a hot chick you know what you're getting... and also SHE'S HOT.

a lot of dudes have been brainwashed into thinking that hot chicks are superficial/uncool/mean and average/ugly chicks are somehow nicer. actually there's no correlation. there's plenty of really hot chicks, esp in the south and texas who are super nice, self-assured and overall more money than ugly chicks

also to be blunt, dating a chick you're not that into to causes a lot of problems down the line. not the least of which is that you're always looking around or thinking twice about the whole thing.

basically dont settle. there's no reason why you would have to go out with a hot chick in the long term if she was annoying. so why would you settle for an ugly chick based on "good personality." that you even ask means deep down you know you're not that into her

 

This is pretty much the best post I've ever seen in the hangout. Great job.

 

personality is measured in cups.