This thread is 4 pages and I'm too lazy...Can you give me an update... As in, did you tell her to f-off, did she tell you to stop stalking, did you guys make up and get back together...
rrj_gamz, He posted this: So this Friday, be ready to write his X-girl's # down. I hear he's going to give it to all of us. Heck, even finalsbound can call her.
MAN. You're not supposed to post until you talk to her, you silly silly wicked monkey. Anyway, man, don't be DOWN, and sh*t. Frickin' PARTY. Let me ask you this thing: IS SHE HOT and you just don't want her for anyone else, or she behaves classy and just KICKS ASS and doesn't look like Miss Universe? Either way, is your stomach tingling just thinkin' about what you're going to say TOMORROW, or what?
shes hot and yea i can think of alot to say, but as soon as i picture myself saying it to her, my mind goes blank! But yea tomorrow night I will post the update.. DUN DUN DUNNNNNN
bladeage, i'm not trying to be an ass but i have a feeling you're gonna go about this the wrong way. as i'm writing this, i can see the horrible memories of myself saying all the wrong things when i was in your situation. i remember asking her to dinner. we sat there chit chatting about nothing. we ate, then starting talking about "us". the whole time i kept asking her, "what did i do wrong? I can change. What do I need to do to make this work?" oh yea, i also ended it with the dreadful, "Whenever you're ready, I'll be here." You know what line she gave me? It's the same line I give to women I no longer have an interest in..."It's not you, it's me." of course, now i realize it was just a cop-out. the difference though is that she actually told you she doesn't love you anymore. not many people do that when they want a break up. As harsh as it sounds, she was upfront with you and that should be your cue to leave. You're hurt b/c you feel rejected, but she didn't beat around the bush with you. And she can't really explain why she doesn't love you anymore so you'll just be looking for something that isn't there. I personally feel you should drop her. She's already dropped you.
Spoken: Girl I'm here for you All those times of night when you just hurt me And just ran out with that other fella Baby I knew about it, I just didn't care You just don't understand how much I love you do you? I'm here for you I'm not out to go out and cheat on you all night Just like you did baby but that's all right Hey, I love you anyway And I'm still gonna be here for you 'till my dying day baby Right now, I'm just in so much pain baby 'cause you just won't come back to me Will you? just come back to me
Point taken, I was not planning on going about it the way you did. None of that stuff crossed my mind at all. I know this girl better than she knows herself, this "break up" is starting to sound more like a....hmm..a cry for "help" i guess you can say. Seemed like she was doing it to sorta, get my attention, to try to get me to change, but i am a stubborn guy. Anyway, I will explain later after the meeting I can guarantee you guys good news upon my return.
Also, why the dinner date or the "meet in person" to talk? I never understood that. If two people need to talk why in the hell can't they just talk on the phone? I never understood that. I think talking to someone in person about stuff like this is overrated.
We need the address of that coffee shop PRONTO. jgreen91, I guess seeing the person's reactions to your words first hand are better than not seeing them while on the phone. I like talking in person, but heck, that's too many of YOU GUYS.
I remember when I was in college this chick broke up with a guy on campus and as I was walking by he was on his hands and knees crying and she was rubbing his back trying to console him. I've never felt so bad for a guy than that moment except of course when an evil woman did the same thing to me. I hope Bladeage has better luck than that poor guy did.
I am just reminded of this picture of the lion... but it's gonna seem so mean... I mean, I went through this and... Dude... oh, what the heck: BLADEAGE BEFORE this FRIDAY, then AFTER FRIDAY:
Well of course, the news is good. She started crying, she said she knew she had made a mistake, its just she was feeling confused because the relationship has gone a little stale. I told her I understood completely, most people have gone through times like those in a relationship, especially one as long as ours. She said she regretted it, and she was sorry, and seeing how it was to live without me for these past few days made her realize how much she really missed and loved me. I just sat there with a stone cold look, I'm usually an understanding guy, but I tried to keep a straight face. I said, well I didnt meet to beg you to get back together, or to ask you for another chance. And she was like......um.... then for what. And I said, i just wanted to know why you said what u said that day, even though i know you didnt mean it. So she went on about how she felt, and she was sorry and that she is sure about her love for me. So ...anyway, we ARE together again, but I made sure that I let her know that I did NOT want to continue the relationship we had. We needed a fresh new one, but its strange...becuz now, I am the one that feels like my feelings have changed. Anyway...i guess it never ends. If it isnt one thing its another. thanks to everyone for their help.
lol yea i figured you guys wanted blood! although she did go out of her way to "show" me how "sorry" she was
