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[Help] Asking a girl out

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Preston27, Dec 6, 2006.

  1. rezdawg

    rezdawg Member

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    This is definitely, 100%, not the thing you should do. Do not call her if she didnt already give you her number. Just wait until you see her or this whole plan we've got going for you is going to get flushed down the toilet.
     
  2. SwoLy-D

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    Dude... just play some [free] XboX for a while... get your mind away from this... :)
     
  3. arno_ed

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    Like others have said, you do not want to do this IMHO.
    If she didn't give you her number herself you shouldn't search for it online(well you can search but you shouldn't call her)
     
  4. v3.0

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    oh snap, I thought you already had her number. By all means don't call her if she didn't give that number herself. Please tell us you're yanking our chain when you said you looked her up online. THis is beginning to sound like a ride ride thread.

    On my update, I'm drifting more and more to the friend zone with each conversation I'm having with this girl. She also rambles on and on when she talks, I hate that cause I can't understand what she's saying and have to ask her to repeat alot. I'm just gonna go and hangout and chill with her and her friends cause I don't find myself attracted to the girl anymore.
     
  5. Ace

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    DO NOT CALL HER! That's insane. Do not let her know that you found her number online or anything like that. This will definitely freak her out!
     
  6. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    Agreed,

    Just chill and it will come to you.

    Don't scare the booty !

    DD
     
  7. max14

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    LOL. Good one.
     
  8. macalu

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    Totally Friendzowned.
     
  9. macalu

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    i know you're young so you've probably watched many teen movies. they brainwash you man. the good guy that writes her love letters and is willing to do anything for her getting the girl is bullkaka. stuff like looking up her address and phone number and surprising her will not make her adore you. it's straight up gangsta stalking. she hasn't given you her info for a reason. Chill out Preston!
     
  10. A-Train

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    Don't listen to these losers, Preston. You're doing just fine. You should DEFINITELY call her. You probably don't want to disturb her while she's watching TV or studying, so be sure to call her around 11:00 pm or 11:30. Don't talk to her, though. You just want to make sure she's OK, so don't say anything while on the phone Just breath pretty loudly so she knows that there is somebody that's concerned. You do know how to use *69, right?

    A phone call might not be enough, though, since you really can't tell how somebody is over the phone. Go to her house since you looked her up in the phone book. However, you don't want to seem TOO anxious, so instead of knocking on the door, go around the back and peek through her bedroom window so you can make sure she is OK without her knowing that you're there. Make sure you get a good look at the stuff in her bedroom so you can use that info to get her gifts. While you're there, rummage through her garbage and find out what she likes to eat, so you can make her favorite meal on your first date together. Chicks LOVE it when you know stuff about them that they have never told you. It really shows initiative.

    Good luck, Preston!
     
  11. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum
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    A-Train, you should write for The Onion. That's gold. :D
     
  12. Mr. Brightside

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    I totally second this. :D

    If you love her, you must do whatever it takes, Preston.
     
  13. Sishir Chang

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    Do not... I repeat.. DO NOT! Involve your manager in this. Trying to get superiors at work to help you spark a romance with a co-worker is a recipe for disaster.

    Other than that got no other advice for you. Good Luck!
     
  14. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    Preston,

    Calling a girl when she hasn't given you her number is a sure-fire way to never hear from her again. Just wait til you see her again at work and start a conversation with her - mainly about your concern that she was out sick.
     
  15. max14

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    oh- my - gawd
     
  16. FrontRowJoe

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    Ladies and gentlemen, I give you the Post Of The Year.
     
  17. rrj_gamz

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    Well, definitley no pyscho stalking stuff, but its good to show genuine concern...Don't give up, she wants you, she just doesn't know it yet...
     
  18. finalsbound

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    Ok, act uninterested. The more uninterested YOU are, the more interested she will be.

    Of course, I can't 100% confirm my advice, because some girls are very different than other girls. You make the call.

    Oh yeah...pictures please.
     
  19. rodrick_98

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    anyone hear american girl by tom petty playing in the background? and what's that van doing over there with a couch hanging out the back? :confused: :confused:


    [​IMG]
     
  20. warbirdzone

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    HAHAHAHA...... A-Train is Da MAN! One of the funniest post
    I ever read here. Great stuff! :D :D :D
     

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