Alright, here's an update. Today, she talked to me like she had before, as if I had never asked her out. While talking to her I found out that she has a final on Saturday at 1:30, so I am hoping that is why she gave me the response of "probably" for plans for lunch. I am going to try my luck again sometime next week.
This is positive. Just talk to her like normal. I think at some point you can ask her to join a D&D game(that is with a couple of people right?). Or someting else. I think it is good to just ask her to do something with you, like a game, or something else that you can do as friends, and that is not a date, so do not ask her for Lunch or diner. Just my two cents.
Dude... nothing against you personally or directly, but I still believe he should NOT ask for a specific day. This totally disregards HER schedule and proves we men are nothing but insensitive bastards. Take, for example, if your significant other (whether wife or girlfriend), said "Hey, we're doing [blah blah] tonight" without asking if you had plans. You'd be all , wouldn't you? Preston, "we should hang out some time you're not busy" or "we should hang out some time after your final so you can have some relief from that stress" would be a modified "we should hang out" way of asking. You are one SMART cookie bout the "probably." Kudos to you, my man. And no, I don't know any D&D terminology, so I don't know what to say to you in D&D terms. I apologize. Anyway... A WEEK??? What do you think we are??? The time to strike is NOW! p.s. Is this the only thread ever where D&D does not mean Debate & Discussion?
Swoly, WADR, that's not gonna get him anywhere. if he doesn't get specific, he can't tell if she's interested. for instance, if he wants to ask her to go out on Saturday, he should invite her on Wednesday. that's plenty of time for her to make a decision, unless she's already got plans. if she's interested and doesn't have plans, she'll say yes. if she's interested but has plans, she'll most likely apologize and offer up an alternate day. i think his mistake was asking, "Do you have any plans saturday." that doesn't sound like asking her out, just making small talk. if she's not interested at, then she'll just make up an excuse and leave it at that. if he's gonna be vague about the whole thing, i.e. "we should hang out sometime you're not busy" he's gonna get nowhere b/c she's not going to tell him when she's not busy.
And Preston hits a bloop single to start off the bottom of the ninth. Rally monkey is getting excited!
We need to fast forward this to next week... I need to go into a coma so when I wake up, I can just refresh this thread and see what happens...
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Don't wait a week dude...and like many have said, don't specify a day, this will come up when she asks when?
I agree with that. AND I learned what WADR means. However, how does he know she's making up an excuse or not? That's why the next question after "would you like to go out sometime?" should be "When would be a good time for YOU?" Note: he's allowing HER to tell HIM the time, but he can also decline on THAT time.
Okay, here's my guess: She said "probably" and nothing else? Well, if that's the case, she probably has a boyfriend but doesn't want to tell you because she's afraid you'll stop paying attention to her.
Yea Preston, this is why i hate reality shows, a week! I like instant results. I do agree with the hang out part. What ever happened to just getting her number, am I too old-fasshioned, it seems to work for me.
