Have you ever went out with a guy who was such an ugly pathetic loser that you didn't want to look at him so you never wanted to have the lights on or be seen with him in public? Sincerely, The OP's date from this past weekend
Hey cmon now, you think there are many girls that hook up with unattractive guys? Because plenty of guys will hook up with unattractive girls. And we dont care about a girl's finacial situation as much as you women do. A seven figure pay doctor will marry a waitress. Can you say the same thing vice versa for women? We aren't as shallow as you think!
Seriously? This is what you think? Geez, didnt think some would be sensitive about this sort of topic.
I don't know if they decide that looks don't matter at all. Perhaps as we women age we realize the reality of our situation - that we age poorly compared to men. Men can easily upgrade to a younger model, especially if they're successful, desirable and get lots of attention from other women. It makes complete sense to want to secure a long-term partner before noticing the ravages of time staring back at you in the mirror. My 38 year old knockout friend just got engaged to a pudgy, balding man, but at least he knows she could do way better than him and therefore treats her like a princess. She has dated several hot, successful men who all eventually let her down. She wants to settle down, she wants to start a family with a dependable man...so she did the realistic thing and settled for someone not-so-great in the looks department so she can ensure he will be around for her and her kids until death do they part. It seems common sense to me...if you sacrifice looks, you'll probably find a better personality...and perhaps a more loving/committed partner. Goes for both men and women.
On the contrary, it's a very sensitive topic to talk about others' physical shortcomings. Pics or GTFO
Do you really need to ask us if you should keep her as a F buddy even if you are not attracted to her? I guess guys are different. I only did the booty with guys who I was attracted to.