I am sorry to hear that. My condolences to you and Kelly. Be strong and live on. The future awaits, and it can only get better.
Damn Pimp, I'm sorry man. We had the exact same situation occur, my current wife and I had been together about 3yrs (not married yet) and we got pregnant back in '99. I was working out of town and I quit that job to come home and help. I was very scared at first and then finally accepting and ready to be a daddy. One day my girl got sick and kept throwing up all day, when I got home she hadn't told me this. When I noticed her getting sick that night I asked what's wrong, she said nothing it had been happening all day. I freaked, I new something was wrong, this can't happen to pregnant women. We went to the ER and the baby miscarried, it just stopped growing. It was one of the worst moments of my life. In a single moment the thing that you care most about is gone and you have never even met/held it. I totally understand how you feel and I am very sorry. Just know that your baby is in heaven and doing fine. Life will get better man. We were lucky enough to have another baby and he is a perfectly healthy 2 1/2 yr old now. I wish you the same luck. Drop me an email if you want to talk man.
Thank you....all of you. I really do appreciate all of your kind words and experiences shared. This would have been my first child, so I really didn't know what to expect and am still kind of screwed up from the experience. I'm not even sure what to say. Thanks for listening and just being there.
Hey Pimp, I'm with you like everyone else. I know we only met once, but I've been thinking about you. I wish you the best as a father. Andy
RP ... I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you, and Kelly, make it through this stronger. You'll be in my prayers.
I'm very sorry Pimp, I thought my troubles were bad, I cannot imagine the emotions you must be going through. If i can offer you any words of wisdom at all, just try to let it out, don't keep any feelings wedged up. Find someone to confide in, write a poem, turn to God, it does get better with time.
Pimp, I think a lot of you and I will be praying for you and Kelly tonight. Take care, man and know that you have many people thinking about you and wishing you the best.
My thoughts & prayers are with both of you. My girlfriend's mom had a miscarriage during her 3rd pregnancy, and as a result was unable to have kids afterwards. So they adopted a little girl, who's now the most wonderful, amazing little 12 year old you've ever seen. Everything happens for a reason, even if it's hard to see the purpose or fairness at the time.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will be praying for you both tonight. I know words dont mean much right now but hang in there and do the best you can.
