I did in year 7 of being married but now I'm in year 33. I was out of town for a week, it was easy, the sex was great. But it really took a psychic toll on me. For me, the sex was just sex I always figured I wouldn't pass if it was offered. It was the guilt of keeping the secret, knowing she would feel betrayed, knowing I made a promise I didn't keep. If I had my life to do over I would have been upfront before I got married. "Look baby, I love you and want to live with you forever; but if you aren't around and a good looking chick wants to do the deed with me, I'm not going to pass that up. It's just sex, it's not love" Oh well, too late. I can just tell you though, your conscience punishes you for promises you don't keep. Self loathing is my atheist concept of hell.
I cheated on a girlfriend in college when I was young and stupid. Totally broke her heart. Then, the girl I cheated WITH (surprise) cheated on me. It was karma coming back at me and, looking back, I deserved it. Now, I can't even imagine a possible scenario that would make me cheat on my wife. I would die before I did anything like that to hurt her. Of course, it's totally natural to fantasize about some chick at work, but it would never go past just being a fantasy. That's what masturbation is for.
I can't even fantasize about other women, my gf will kill me. AND she's read this thread and brought it up to me. I've also known lots of people who've been cheated on and vowed they would never cheat on anyone cus they can't imagine inflicting such pain upon another soul. Almost all of them now have cheated. I guess I'm lucky enough to not be in a situation where cheating is a strong possibility. At least I don't think so. My gf might think otherwise. Girls are so paranoid. Yeesh!
Using Word, select all the text, and hit SHIFT+F3 . If you keep hitting F3 while holding SHIFT, you will get toggles of ALL CAPS, Sentence Caps, or no caps. Anyone else interested in more WORD "cheats"?
If you are married and had sex with another married person could you argue that as being a SWINGER...and NOT CHEATING? lol
So the REAL percentage of cheaters in society is somehow reflected by the posters on a Houston Rockets internet forum? =\ Anyways yea I've cheated. Nothing big but some random minor stuff, shrug
...you're serious? Cheating is okay to do as long as your SO doesn't find out? That's really your position on the matter?
I can't believe I'm making my 1,000th post on cheating but here it is haha... I did it to my girlfriend of a year and a half. While it was nice at the time (real nice) I was laden by guilt afterwards. But you know what, to me, all that meant was that my commitment wasn't where I needed it to be. It showed me that I wasn't meant to be with my girlfriend, because when we first started dating I NEVER would've done it. Also, I was cheated on back in high school and I swore to anyone who would listen that I would never do that to somebody else cuz it was such a horrible feeling. How bout that. It's not my proudest moment in life, but it happened...
lol i know. It hurt more when yao went out than getting cheated on . Seriously though, you think you know someone and BAM ! Lesson Learned. Getting cheated on by someone you "truely" loved is up there withany kind of pain. Do yall know how much tang tang i passed up? o Boy
Heard this on a radio show the other day, this any of you clowns? sorry for the length, and no I havent cheated
as far as being physical, i cheated when i was 17ish (cant remember). i had just started dating a girl and decided it was a good idea to see an ex. never went as far as a few pecks but cheating none the less. the new girl ended up finding out from my best friend, forgiving me and we stayed together for over a year (cant remember the time frame). this relationship abruptly ended with her leaving me for pizza delivery guy to whom she lost her virginity to a month into that relationship. anyone could of guessed that new thing wasn't lasting long but it still tore me up at the time. as far as cheating emotionally, i have done that too. to explain, i used to have a real bad issue with going online and flirting, probably acting like i was single, with random girls while id the midst of a serious relationship. long story short, i guess ive grown up and realized i was in a better place w/o those other girls. fast forward to today and i am a changed man and very happily married. ive gotten lucky that girls have chosen to forgive me in the past but i gotta add that females are dumb and fall for anything.
Never have Never will... I have been cheated on and it sucks! No matter the form of cheating it can eat you up if you let it! I've moved on and now am happily married for almost a year now! It took a while to find that right guy.. and when i did it took a while to get him to see i was the right girl! life now is amazing now and i wouldnt change a thing.... to think that one person could be as happy as i am its crazy!
Congrats! would you agree with me even though your a women that women do indeed cheat more than men? just curious to know your p.o.v
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Lesson Learned. Next time, cheat. Forget the girl, get as many as you can before it's too late and you have kids.
Never have Never will. One of the things I completely feel is morally wrong and will not do. If you want someone else then break up with who your with and go do your thing. Don't go off playing another person. It's one of the worst things you can honestly do in my opinion.
