Have you ever cheated on your GF/BF?

i don't see it as a character flaw, i'm just a very romantic guy.

 

in my case BFs = Best Friends
All three of us are males.

 

Lol... I don't think you understand how this works. You cheated on your best friend? WTF does that even mean. lol

 

Nah, that's if someone flaunts the cheating and doesn't try to hide it. That's different.

 

Yup. I was young and dumb, and knew there wasn't a future. I wouldn't do it again - dat guilt.

 

i've never given it much thought but this is a very underrated statement.

 

back in 9th grade was the only time i ever cheated on someone.

never got caught though

 

lol i never realized hand jobs were so popular!

 

I think you have a mistaken notion of what APD means. The pop culture terms for someone with APD are pyschopath and sociopath. One of my ex-GFs had APD. She was gorgeous, always smiling and happy, people loved her, she was always there for her friends, yet she was dead inside. What I saw was a shell and inside her lived another organism.

She revealed that she mimicked behaviors designed to get people around her to do what she wanted. She was the best liar I've ever seen; an insurance investigator and detective also said the same thing. Empathy and remorse were foreign concepts to her. As a biologist, she strangled one of the animals in her labs where the experience felt detached - like a horror movie fan watching Saw or Hostel. She cheated on every man she dated. Said it felt good to her, and that his feelings were irrelevant.

APD is a huge umbrella term for various antisocial behaviours, and you may have a lesser form of it. Only until she saw a specialist was it confirmed who she was. Today, she is high up in management for a large biotech company. Everyone blithely admires and loves her, of course...

 

and alcoholics are just fervent oenophiles....

 

I stopped reading at "My mom...".

 

Man I hate everyone that got laid in middle school. Really? I'm barley learning to masturbate and don't even know how to talk to girls yet at that age and dudes were over there getting a handy

 

Never. I'm into loyalty.

 

lol don't feel to bad... i damn near busted one off on a 5 minute bus ride hahaha

 

Generally speaking guys will eff anyone, neighbor, coworker, random etc. Thats why they get caught.

Women are smarter. They'll cheat with married/committed men avoid the drama.

 

It's not something that's solved over time, it's something that's solved when you find the one that's truly worth not cheating on. My girlfriend isn't adriana lima (albeit she's gorgeous to me) but the way she treats me, her mannerisms, her smile, just couldn't imagine putting myself in a position where i'd cheat on her... & I'm still in my early 20's (barely).

When you love someone a ton, you want to see them happy over yourself & cheating on my girlfriend would not make her happy, it's that simple.

 

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I cheated on a girl in a long distance relationship once. I was pretty certain she was also cheating on me. Regardless, I felt no guilt at the time and still don't. I don't see cheating as such a huge deal if you are not living with someone. Of course, you had better use protection and hopefully you aren't romantically interested. Maybe it's just the types of people I date.

 

I'm "working from home". GF is at work - we do not live together anyway.

Where can I go to get some? I want to cheat, i want to cheat....