Has a girl ever asked you out and paid for the date?

when i was in college i was waiting by this spot i knew this chick i wanted to holler at would pass by, class had already started but i knew she would pass by because she was frequently late, she passed by and we started to converse she was with one of her friends and they said since we're late why don't we just go and get something to eat, we went to a fastfood place but she paid,

the next time i see her it was during a lunch break and she asked if i wanted to go with her to lunch, she paid for lunch then too,

a few months go by it is between the fall and spring semesters, i used to work at the college doing advising, she was up there to register for spring semester she came to see me and asked if i wanted to go and eat with her and her friends once i got off, i said sure, she paid for that too

4 kids later she bought dinner last night again

 

No, but she provided the bud.

 

only thing girls have paid for is my weed.

 

Girls come up to me all the time but I don't recall one that has paid on the first date.

I'll ask for her number during the convo if she's cute. Allowing a girl to pay on the first date is a bit lame imo..

 

Yes but it was a girl I had zero intentions of sleeping with. Not that she was ugly but she was in my friend zone.

 

what he said...my brother let this girl take him to vegas and she paid for everything...they knew each other, but never dated...he had to put out but after that he dumped her...

 

It happened to me once in college. I was out with some friends and did some karaoke, and approached me later in the day and handed me a slip of paper with her name and phone #.

A few days l decided to call just to see, and she invited me out to dinner, her treat.

Turns out we didn't have much in common and it was the only date we ever went on, but yes, it did happen.

 

I've paid for a date once or twice.

 

Yes, but (reading the rules of the OP) most of the time it was an ex attempting to rekindle.

I used to wait tables in college, and would get the occasional number written on napkins and left for me, which I found weird & non-confrontational, because it happened more often than actually giving me the number in conversation, or asking for my own. I wound up with a few free meals out of that, but no relationships of consequence. (Bad Pavlovian response: I spent the rest of my employ there overturning/unfolding soiled napkins from attractive women, just to be sure.)

I'm not lying. The last one's name was, uh, Sadie. Yeah, that's it, Sadie Hawkins.

No, but there's the obvious correlation with free-spiritedness, which I'd venture to guess for most guys is a plus. Any woman who makes the first move automatically becomes more attractive. Whatever else, she's got good taste going for her.

 

So you finally scored? Niiiice...

 

It can be that but I wouldn't say that necessarily. I'd say whoever invites should pay. Sometimes a girl will really want to go out and you're just not in the mood or busy or low on funds. When she invites and offers to pay it gives you one less reason not to want to go out and it shows she's really interested in going out, not just saying yes because you asked and she didn't have anything else planned. So anyway.. yeah.

 

He never said they were his kids.

 

In Korean culture, the person of the highest economic status pays for any meal. Girl or young boy. Doesn't matter.

 

You joke so much, I don't know whether to believe this.

 

she paid for a hotel and that was the only expense.....does that count?

 

Yes, several times.

 

well driving me to another girl's house count? :grin:

 

I dont let women pay on dates, so no...but Ive gone out with girls that have asked me out and insisted on paying.

I just give the CC to the waiter while we are being seated or while she goes to the bathroom so that there is no fuss over the bill when it arrives.

Fellas, learn that trick, its smooth when the waiter just shows up at the end handing back your CC to you...when the girl never saw the transfer of the credit card in the first place. Of course, you can only do this once per girl, otherwise, it just becomes cheesy.