no, he doesn't talk like that...he talks like that when he's joking...trust me, i won't marry a guy who talks like that everyday. swilkins, that was a good chunk of your opinion...we have different opinions on everything...i honestly thought it wasn't anything because it was just candy and he might was just being nice but i am not going to worry about this because it isn't affecting my relationship with my guy. i told him that i wouldn't be terribly upset if a girl co worker bought him candy because i trust him and he trusts me so this issue isn't a big issue for both of us but we both know that we should decline anything that is starting to be a repeat occurrence. i've mentioned my guy in convos with the janitor guy so he has to know i am in a relationship so i have no idea what was his intentions. I got some free candy. no_answer, LOL i am the other way around with my guy...i will battle him until the end.
Way ahead of you, sir. I knew his intent. Forever I've been using sexcharged's candy and "leftover" cookies to lure fatties and get Mrs. SwoLy to eat more... MORE... MORRRREEE!!!!! I loves me some chubs, yessir, I do. "I got fu-uuuudge... Hershey's chocolate kisses...!" - Diceman cometh
Hey, Woman. Hey, finalsbound! Listen here. Since your old man ain't got no heart, maybe you like to see a real man. I bet you stay up late every night dreamin' you had a real man, don't ya? I'll tell you what. Bring your pretty little self over to my apartment tonight, and I'll show you a real man. Spoiler
Much like Peter Griffin, I would only get angry if she didn't share the candy with me: Girlfriend: "Hey honey, this good-looking, successful entrepreneur gave me a bag of candy at work today." Me: "So where's the candy." Girlfriend: "Oh, I ate some and then gave the rest away." Me: "You b*stard." But seriously, I used to be pretty jealous when I was younger, but a few years ago I did a 180 change from that. I realized that it is pointless to be jealous. Either your girl wants to be with you 100%, or she doesn't. If it's the former, any advances by other guys will be pointless because she won't have any ultimate interest in them. On another note, any guy who is buying stuff for a girl who has made it known that she is in a relationship is taking the risk that he will be wasting money with nothing in return. My last girlfriend would often give me the free drink whenever a guy at the bar would buy her one. Most of the times they would ask to buy her a drink, she would decline by saying that her boyfriend probably wouldn't like that, they'd insist and buy her one anyway, I'd swoop in and take the drink and throw a humorous comment or two at the guy for being such a chode.
Okay, do I have a sticker on my forehead that says, "Hi, I want freebies"? This old man (in his 50's) just gave me a coffee porcelain cup out of blue when I was getting water in the break room. I said, no thank you, a few times but he kept insisting. Well, if you want something, I can get it for free and send it to you! I think it would be fine if I told my dude about this because the guy was an old man. Right?
It'll add more color to the general picture that many men find you attractive and that he should trust no one. Go ahead and show him the thread where you posted your pic too. He might not care about the old man, but he might care that your fidelity depends only on your whim and not your opportunities. Some might be jealous about that, others might get an ego trip out of it.
It already has been sent to you. I wasn't with him that time when I posted the pic so it's irrelevant. What does my fidelity has to do with this? Enlighten me Juanito, please.
You have a history with cleaning/maintenance people. Maybe they think you are part of them because you are a Latina. It happens you know.
see if he can find you (me) an apartment in downtown. that way, i dont have to share a restroom with people. i can just walk to my own.
You did the right thing by rejecting the gift. You also may have noticed that this situation did not carry with it the energy of the fear like the previous situation. If you feel good about what you did and carry no guilt, why take it any further? Mentioning something like this may make your guy nervous. My point initially was that you accepted a gift and didn't feel right about it and then shared it to your guy, which only made it worse. Age has nothing to do with it. Some people like having a "Daddy".
Here's a halfass-related question: Is it wrong of me...well, 'wrong' is a subjective word when it comes to morals...Is it abnormally jealous of me to not like the fact that my girlfriend has some strange guy moving in with her for the duration of her lease (9 months)? She doesn't really even know the guy herself, it was her sister/roommate (who's moving out 9 months early) who recommended him. I've never met the guy, so I can't assume anything of him - I just don't like the concept. (Of course I'll go on to say) It's not that I don't trust her (They all say that. But...?), but I'm worried that I'll end up generating something in my own mind that is or isn't there, and sh...stuff will get out of hand. I'm not the 'jealous type' at all - under normal circumstances. But her living with someone of my sex is quite a springboard for that behavior: "I wonder what they're doing now..." I'm certain most guys wouldn't like this either, but how should I handle this...how should I act outwardly about it, especially considering her feelings, and at the same time, the fact that something bad could happen at the bottom of a future jealousy-spiral?
Either you're blind as a bat (that goes on the LASIK thread), or you didn't pay attention . Check it: She didn't say NO, swilkins. There's a bunch of disillusioned men thinking they're gonna 'get some' soon around that building... How do you sleep at night (and I am not asking for a physical description, I mean knowing you're doing wrong by accepting all these gifts), Ms. Di...? Now you're pimpin' yourself to peeps here in the BBS? WOW. Just... WOW...
My advice to Lady_Di: It's just candy, why even bring it up with your boyfriend? Is it eating away at your conscience like it's eating away at your teeth? Quoth the candy, "You'reawhore"? Ignorance is bliss - why take that away from him over some Werther's?
