Got Cheated On

This is the perfect opportunity to procure Anne Hathaway.

....and post pics of GTFO!

 

I would definitely lean towards you smashing it real hard and then letting her know that you want some time away. to think.

In that meantime you need to be at bars, strip clubs, craiglist getting skank on you as much as possible. You want the scent of strange all over you.

Once you get past a few weeks you can see where you are at with things.

As for her I am worried about her because not a good sign when you get cheated on. This means you probably like her more than she likes you and my best advice is to find someone that likes YOU MORE than you like them.. AFTER you go through this smashing period I mean.. for now you need you worry about dirtying your junk.

my 2 cents

 

+1

This will lead to the best outcome. Whether it is her begging to have you back (after seeing you having success with other women), or you moving on with your life and meeting someone better. Only thing I would add is going to the gym, getting in as best shape as you can be, it'll be a healthy outlet for this negative energy and you'll feel more confidence.

 

I'm gonna add you should get two girls, pay them if need be, and set up a webcam. Email it to your ex, but make sure the video is cropped so it starts right in the middle of yall adventure.... She'll turn it off right away, so you want to make sure she gets the full image of you banging two chicks.

 

I made the mistake of wanting to work things out with my ex. She cheated on me again. Cut your losses and don't look back. Trust me online dating is the way to go...you'll forget about her in no time. I went through a whole rainbow coalition of love until I found the one. Been married three years with mu soul mate...but finding her was a fun ride!

 

"While I think things through"?

Would have been nice if she had done this (think things through) before she messed around on you. Or maybe she did and messed around anyway.

 

I'd get back with her and start swinging if she's the one. Everybody wants to tap something fresh every now and again. She just got horny and ****ed somebody. I'm sure you've felt that way before. Now that this is all in the open, you should talk to her, set up the ground rules, and start swinging. That way you're with 'the one' and you can get that lust that builds up every now and again out in a healthy and honest manner.

 

Contrary to the typical CF response, every cheater isn't the same. For most situations, you should leave her and move on. However, there are a small number of scenarios where you might want to consider forgiving her. Every man thinks he had the one, and how she deserved a 2nd chance. Maybe yours is the one (although I doubt it given how rare they are). Only you can conclude that.

Cheating happens because of poor communication. Seven people I know have cheated and/or been cheated on. I predicted every one of them. If you know how to analyze the man or woman the right way, you can tell weeks or even months before how they actually feel about the relationship and their chances of infidelity.

You need to grill her thoroughly. How did she interact with this old coworker of hers back when she was working at HEB? How about the night it happened or the days before that? What's he like versus you? What are the chances she'll meet more men like him in the future? What's her history regarding family/friends of her cheating? How would she feel if it were done to her?

Tell her how everyone thinks she's a waste of your time and how you should kick her to the curb. Ask her why you should even think about keeping her in your presence, much less be physically or emotionally intimate with. Once a cheater, always a cheater? Tell her how you look pathetic by being in the dark for so long. Approach this like an interview. Use intuition to see how truthful she is.

Only two of the seven people forgave. One cheated again, the other truly made a one-time mistake and he's a changed man now. Good luck.

 

Dude, go find someone that respects you.

Hit the bars for the Rockets-Thunder game and go rage for females after
Hell, get on match, eharmony, etc and meet new people

Time to embrace the new freedom son.

 

Are you a revenue or production accountant? If so, I might actually know you.

 

Dude were you training with some chick for the past few months before you left for OKC. Working under Greg?

 

I'll tell her you said Hi! I'm taking her to the Rockets game tonight, haha.

 

This worked for me when I got dumped by a girl that I was with for 2 years. Deleted every part of her from me. Trashed everything that she gave me along with pictures. Never texted her or called her and pretended like she didn't exist. Went on as if I had never known her. She would try to call or text but I never responded. The best revenge is forgetting the person and living a better life. Ran into her recently with my girlfriend now and she stopped like she was going to say hi and I didn't even look at her way. **** was beyond awesome.

 

No, but it really is a small world. But seriously, you should move back to Houston, especially now.

 

How is it living up there. Are you guys already in the new office? I know it was completed a while back. And yeah, she's going to the Astros game tonight instead. Oh well, her loss.