I remember during Sociology they taught us the four horsemen of a failed relationship. These are them and this is how I remembered them: Criticism (Katie) Defensiveness (Amy) Contempt (Cindy) Withdrawal (Sarah)
I have to agree with this. Easier said than done when it comes to forgiving someone for something like this. But think long and hard about the good times you've had, and put it all on the table. Then ask yourself if she's worth taking another chance on based on everything -- the good and the bad. Life is short, sometimes it's better to forgive no matter how tough the situation is.
Bold 1. Well yeah, that's why I listed it the way I did. I get that. Bold 2. And that is what they were doing when she confronted him. The rest of that stuff you wrote: You speak like a jilted man that never got over his lost. But, as much as I know about the OP story, I know less of yours, so take my effort of forgiveness with a grain of salt.
[standard CF relationship thread response template] Forget about her and move on. [/standard CF relationship thread response template]
[standard CF relationship thread title template] I got friendzoned/ My gf just dumped me/ She cheated on me with another guy. [/standard CF relationship thread title template]
Ha! Hardly. My life is much better off and it's in the past. I'm just speaking from my experience to try and help like others. All I'm saying though is she should have mentioned the affair, or how she felt about a situation with someone else (if all it was was feelings then), MUCH sooner.... not say she's just worried about the relationship only to have him make the effort to make things better and THEN admit it afterwards. All those actions do not say, "I love you and I respect and appreciate you." She was only thinking about herself and her happiness, especially when she knew it would hurt the guy she was with. I'm not judging her, saying she's a bad person or that he absolutely shouldn't take her back. It's on him to figure out, like others have said, if she is truly worth it, and that he can trust, and trust her, that it was just a one-time screw up. But, no matter what, he needs to take a step back and think about himself and his happiness and see how she fits into that..
Calm down dudes. I've never stepped foot in okc. I just know that Devon closed down their Houston offices march 31 and idiots actually took the offer to move up to okc instead of taking a nice severance package and finding another job in Houston. Lol.
cheat on female, lose half of currency? i know the feeling man, i had my gf of multiple years cheat on me in college, and her apartment was like 50 ft away from mine for the rest of college. only thing is the way i found out is that one of her friends took a picture of her making out with him in her parent's pool and sent it to me from her phone.
