Well, not really although it does suck that I no longer have the time (or access) to come to the chat room but such is life.
Well not really more like reality has finally set in for me. My biggest struggle is wishing that I can change my wife to be something she's not. To me, that is the biggest work in a marriage - accepting people for who they are and dealing or coping with the things about them that bothers you. I'll be okay, though, maybe a little unhappy from time to time but that's life.