Eh. I think popular culture has us think this is more common than it actually is. Or maybe I need to find some new bars.
I can't believe the OP is serious. I mean sometimes it is a one night stand, sometimes more serious, sometimes casual, there is no easy answer. Unless you are married, then it is like.....whenever the kids are at their grandparents... DD
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i've learned a lot from jersey shore. such as obnoxious people gravitating toward one another. obviously "the situation" doesn't care how dumb or vapid his women are, he likes the conquest. i'll admit, i'm not like that. i need some sort of affirmation that a potential sexual partner has a brain. i don't have to know them deeply, but intelligence and wit go a long way. i think most men also feel that way about women...or am i off-base? do guys just enjoy sleeping around without having to know them beforehand? oh stop, there's no drama. moes and i talk away from the message board...i don't really sense any awkwardness here. sorry it seemed like we were bickering or whatever. totally agree. if you're a woman in your teens/twenties you'll get labeled a slut a lot faster than a woman in her thirties/forties.
i thought that was when they sex younger men. anyways, "sluts" "cougars" whatever, those labels only seem to apply to one gender. HI THERE
By the way, about the girls giving it up/guys "bribing" them for it thing, is it in our genes? I think I read about some monkey experiments where the guys bribe the girls with food so that they can get some.
Epic threadness. A woman releases one egg/cycle from menarche to menopause. A man produces and releases quadrillions of sperm on a regular basis throughout his lifetime. There is no real comparison. Do the math.
I honestly think it depends on the person whether they be male or female. I remember when I was 17-18 and this girl my friend was about to take home said "Come on, I'll **** you too!" and I never knew her before that. I think some guys honestly don't care, they just enjoy the conquest or having the number. I think there are some women the same way but they don't equal the men or are probably better at hiding the fact.
Most women in their teens/twenties are single and most in their thirties/forties are married. A married woman can desire sex with her husband 10 times a day ask my wife and not be labeled a slut. On the other hand, if a single woman wants sex 10 times a week, she's labeled a slut. Ironically, the label probably comes more from other women than men. Hmmm. My wife tries this approach with me all the time. And it always works.
Yes. There are biological factors at play. A woman's body says a lot about her health and her ability to reproduce healthy offspring while man's power and status says a lot about his ability to provide for and protect that offspring. So: Women like money and power. Men like nice legs and big t***. The real mystery here is why society likes to pretend it is baffled by these things.