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(Girls) How early do you give "it" up?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by RoxSqaud, Oct 13, 2010.

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  1. AroundTheWorld

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    00rocketgirl has already stated that she will wait until she is married.

    Isn't it a lose-lose proposition for any of the girls to answer this question here? Either they are considered prudish or a slut.

    I feel them...I mean...for them.
     
  2. RV6

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    im pretty sure they've answered before, not sure what the thread topic was, maybe the same one. Basically "when they feel like it" is the answer you'll get :grin:
     
  3. droxford

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    Actually, I meant that I'd like their opinions on the "women want sex just as much as men" comment.
     
  4. ScriboErgoSum

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    HayesFan is a girl?!?!?!

    ;)

    Moes and FB, maybe you should work out visitation rights for ClutchFans. One of you gets it this week, the other the next. Alternate holidays and such. Should Moes have to give up some of his rep (not that FB needs it).
     
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  6. Lady_Di

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    I can't remember...have been with my guy for like 5 years. Can't help you out, OP. Sorry. :(

    Ok, with my guy, it was months but we were friends first.
     
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    women don't want sex as often as men.

    how many guys masturbate? all of them.

    how many women masturbate? not all of them.

    can i get brian_chapman to confirm my stats?
     
  8. Lynus302

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    'More rigid standards' or not, it doesn't change the fact that for 99.99% of men, all we have to do it look at a chick before we know whether we want to have sex with them. A glance is literally all it takes to know whether we'd hit it. Women might very well do this too, but it boils down to the action, not the thought.

    What this generally means is that, yes, we have to win women over in some form or fashion for that thought to become action. Maybe it's buying you dinner and taking the more traditional courting approach; maybe it's buying you a drink at at a bar. It might just be as simple as displaying the confidence to come introduce ourselves in hopes of making you laugh/ask you to dance/initiate conversation/whatever, but it all means the same thing: Men want secks and we (generally) have to take an extra step in order to get it, be it spending money, the approach itself or providing some service of some kind.

    Speaking of, how's your car running?

    :grin:
     
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    fb can do whatever she wants.


    She gets no preferential treatment from me though, just because we used to be all stupid and in love doesn't mean I won't engage her on a topic.

    I'm an Equal Opportunity A-Hole.
     
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    oh ok...personally from what i've heard from ex gfs, or friends that are girls, is that they want it as much, but they don't want it as often.

    I think that's the confusion...men are usually refering to or including frequency, and women are just thinking about how bad they want it the specific times they're up for it.
     
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    I'm on team Finals. Moes shiny green makes me insecure.
     
  12. Lynus302

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    This:
    Younger women are more concerned with the social "stigma" of putting out. Older women realize that mostly self-imposed stigmas are crap and figure they may as well get while the gettin's good. I don't mean "self-imposed" as a slight to women; women are f**king MEAN to each other.
     
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    These days, all it really takes is having a pulse...

    Too many examples of this to mention.
     
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    Why would it be a lose-lose? Personally I would instantly lose interest in any girl who was willing to give it up to me before marriage. All it means is that they're looking for a particular type of guy, and we may be few but we are out there.
     
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    This thread is messed up.
     
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    i love watching the melodrama of ex-partners
    it's better than tv
    well not really certainly better than work
     
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    I agree with this. Sleep with whoever you want and whenever you want without the bs "rules" attached to your decision. I hate the fact that women get labeled slut, ho, w**** or whatever other derogatory term there is for them out there when they skip all the drama and just go for what they want. More power to you!
     
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    I meant lose-lose in terms of getting a negative reaction on the BBS from someone either way.
     
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    It's awkward, but somehow interesting.
     
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    :rolleyes: What does this even mean? Like the female half of a one-nighter somehow automatically respects the male? Please. This point of view translates to "I have no respect for someone who would sleep with me," which speaks more to the self-worth of the speaker than anything else.
     

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