Girl question

Winner

 

If you're gonna bite, at least tell her you don't want sloppy seconds.

 

Yeah only a dumbass would...


oh.

uh.


carry on

 

This thread is like a trainwreck.

 

you should tell her that youve been cheating on her

 

No offense or anything, but I just wouldn't post a picture of my girlfriend on this place. That's asking for trouble.

 

You should dismember her and dump the limbs and torso in different places in Japan.

Keep the head, though. You can microwave it later.

 

this is by far the worst thread i've ever seen

solution is:
be a man
get off of myspace
break up with her
**** other girls

 

No man, its too soon to have learned a lesson. It's the emotions talking. But it seems like she's a bit imature and doesn't know how to deal with the situation. It's time you be a man, I would say...I want to be with you, but I understand you want your space...so let's just take a break. Let me know when you are ready to come back, if the feelings are mutual we'll figure it out then.

In the mean time, you have to realize if she's feeling someone else she'll move on - So you have to as well. And if she comes back, just see how you feel about her then. In the mean time you are free...so enjoy. Its human nature to realize what we had until we lose it, maybe she'll come around. But live on that hope, thats a bad road!

 

just call her and ask her what is going on.

Suggest that you guys don't talk or communicate for a couple of weeks while she straightens here stuff out.

Then say, you are there for her when she figures out her issues.

Then go out and get a new girlfriend.


Bottom line is you need to get "HAND" because right now she has "HAND"....


If she asks for space.....give it to her, she will come RUNNING back to you at some point....trust me.

DD

 

finalsbound hasnt exactly gone outta her way to keep it hidden

ordinarily, you would be correct...
you just cant always apply it to ppl who plaster their names and pics on myspace

 

oh my!

well, if everyone at Clutchfans was wrong about her motives; then we were wrong. It still does not deny the fact you should move on. If she is telling the truth about family troubles and crap, and she has stopped taking your calls (see your first post), then she apparently needs to work through something alone.

But by all means, you now have to error on that she is telling the truth, because if you don't and you keep persisting with your first blog response, and she is telling the truth, then you will be a legit assh0le in her eyes...which would be mean. But that doesn't mean you should keep communicating as her best friend or anything.

As Sting said, if you love them, then let them go. Let her do whatever she has to do, and when she's done, tell her to call you.

but move on ...

 

with all the weird sht going on in this thread, and *thats* all you got?

who are you and what did you do with the *real* heypartner?

 

You know when you get a brain freeze from drinking too much cold liquid? This thread is like a comedy slurpee and I can't think straight.

Seriously though, I hate games and I would tell her that she can stop stringing you along.

...Either that or turn the tables and start playing w/ her mind. You could really milk this. Tell her you think YOU need space and you're not sure if you two should keep talking as much. She'll hound you constantly until she thinks you're under her thumb again.

Eh, go for adult relationships and take the first option.

 

Seriously, here's some real advice. Whether she wants to be with you or not, she sounds like a constant headache. Unless there is some GREAT reason to stay with this girl that you haven't mentioned, you should move on. She's 19 and putting you through this? Get out now while she is giving you a reason with the "needing space" stuff.

If you don't end this now, I promise that sooner or later you'll be posting a thread asking the BBS how to get out of this without causing her to kill herself.

.02

 

hold on a second. I saw your pick just a second ago. that was my "Oh my" response. Did you remove the pick...Was that not her.

 

Hit it and quit it
Walk it off like big papi

 

you took it down too late. I got on my harddrive now.

She is a hottie. Nice catholic girls skirt. haha