LOL he thought I was cheating on HIM! That's besides the point. Here's what you do. Add ME to your myspace, I'll add her, and keep her "distracted" while you get a new girl, deal? (someone send me the pic, STAT.) Oh and sorry Kam, I still have a boyfriend.
OK this is ridiculous. Right after I told her that I was giving her her "space" and I was moving on she proceeds to delete this paragraph taht she wrote about me from her page along with a picture of me. And she removes me from her top friends and all of a sudden her number 1 is this guy that she knows I don't like.
PERFECT!!!! Seriously, Ive been through this... You are in her head. Keep it up champ. EDIT Just dont do anything that will make her realize that this move she did pissed you off. Just play it cool.
Man - from this thin slice of her we're getting, she sounds amazingly flaky. Are you hoping that you ultimately end up in a relationship with her? Because I can't see that going any more smoothly than this is.
He's saying that the drama you are going through right now will still be around when you are in a relationship with her. Its the truth, but if you are willing to put up with it, then its all good.
Dude, seriously, I think you've been on myspace enough today. Get off the internet and go do something you enjoy, or go to bed. Don't call her or have any kind of communication with her. She's obviously trying to **** with you. Wait it out for a while and if she's smart she'll come to you first...from what she's done though I'm not even sure she's worth it, she seems pretty immature. But that's your call. When you wake up tomorrow, the first thing you should tell yourself is that you're not with her anymore so you can start moving on as soon as possible.
Oh yea and she also called me "two faced" and told me to "practice what you preach". Man wtf she just trying to get in my head right guys? that ain't gonna happen.
She's playing a stupid game...and she wasnt expecting you to say that you're moving on, dropping her lower on your friends list, etc...basically, you blind sided her with this and she's doing all these things as a reaction to it. Just sit back and enjoy seeing her squirm.
whatever you do, do NOT call her! if she calls you, don't pick up the first time, or the 2nd. it's gonna be hard not to but you have to hold your ground. when she calls a third time, you can pick up but just play it cool. Don't go answering on the first ring. Just say with a calm voice, "hello" don't even sound happy about it, simply say it like you don't care. keep the conversation short and tell her you're kind of busy at the moment. don't linger on the goodbye. of course, if she never calls you again then **** her. she's not worth the trouble.
Good God man. Have some respect for yourself. She chose this route. We're telling you how to go about it. As a 35 yr. old divorced man, I can tell you I've done this a dozen times, at least. As most have said, while it appears to be "different" with her, it isn't. This is just about as tantamount as "it's not you... It's me!" While I COMPLETELY understand your rationale at your age, I guarantee you it is going to bring you nothing but heartbreak. And the longer you let her string you along, the harder it will be when the inevitable breakup occurs. I have no advice. There isn't any necessary. Any guy on this board who has dated women will tell you this is a cliche'd response that she's giving you. More than likely by talking to her friends. The only answer has, and always has been to dump her. Please keep your respect.
I havent'read the entire thread but i agree with most that posted in the last 2 pages. You should ignore her. Also try to move on. Go out with friends. Maybe meet new girls, if you see that there are other nice girls it is easier to forget a girl. Also i agree with Zac D that this might be a preview of what is to come when you do end up in a relationship with her. But if you do want her back, then you have to make her believe that she misses you more then you miss her. So basically do not call her, and act indifferent if you meet her.
