Yesterday was my girlfriend's birthday. Pretty much this sums up my relationship. This is an email i got this morning. I spent roughly $300 dollars on her during Christmas. I bought her a promise ring from Kay. I Bought Texan playoff tickets for the both of us. I'd like to get some input on this. I already told her a week ago that we are going to celebrate her birthday this weekend. We do work together. We had lunch together (granted she got a free birthday meal) Co-Workers made her a cake. Hi. I wanted to say I'm sorry for being upset about yesterday. But to me it was my birthday and I know you don't have money and that's ok I understand but you should have tried to do other things to make it up to me. Yeah u offered to make dinner why couldn't u just get up and make it without saying anything to me? You want to kiss me and I say no cause your beard hurts why couldn't you go shave? And you didn't even come tell me good night, I know you said when u came in I was already asleep but I know for a fact u were watching the game and I went and started playing my game on my phone for about 30 minutes. U didn't realize I was gone from the loving room or was the game more important? You know my birthday is important to me and I don't care about the money. I understand.. I just wish you would have tried other things to make it a special day for me. Jess.
Ummmmm WTF? If it's her time of the month I would say ignore the email and just say "sorry" and try to "make it up" but if shes not on her red dot sight then WTF? Seems like she is looking for reasons to b**** at how her bday wasnt perfect
She is just in a mood where she wants to feel loved, girls get those every now and again from my experienes with my girlfriend and my exes in the past.
So to sum up the advice from the first ten posts: - She's 'bout to dump you. Dump her first. - Love her like Te'o loved his make-believe girlfriend. - Shave. - Don't shave. - She might be on the rag. If not, head to splitsville. - Y does she use both 'u' and 'you' and does that provide an insight to the deeper problem? - Is this Vivi? - Living room should be the "STFU I'm watching the game" room not the "Loving" room. - Promise ring was a bad idea.
It will be 2 years in May. I like to think I'm a good boyfriend. Her car was repoed almost a year ago. She depends on me to take her where she needs to go. I never complain or grunt. I really do try and make her happy. But I feel it's not enough with her.
Women need/want attention and to feel special. That doesn't mean spending money on them, necessarily. I'd imagine you aren't making her feel wanted/needed. Sure you mentioned buying her some stuff, but based on the fact that you feel the need to say how much you spent on her, I'd imagine you are feel that buying stuff is equal to giving attention...it is not. Oh yeah, women are crazy, so get used to it.
With this added bit of information, she sounds like a user/overly dependent person and it will never be enough for her. Go get yourself a nice independent girl.
