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GF send me long break up email at work - ruins my day

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by tmac2k8, Mar 13, 2009.

  1. Royals Ego

    Royals Ego Member

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    I am no fan of any, because
    I have already surpassed many
    Hemingway, Longfellow, Poe, or Cooper
    John or Abigail, can't come any closer
    My wisdom and brilliance is second to none
    Just admit defeat and hand me the crown.
     
  2. juicystream

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    Our zip code is wrong. It is actually 31201. 31208 is our PO Box's zip code.

    I was more than happy to help. :)
     
  3. stipendlax

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    She shouldn't have to offer, she should do that regardless.
     
  4. stipendlax

    stipendlax Member

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    Whoops! Re-read it and the joke does not apply.

    I'll be leaving now.
     
  5. Space Ghost

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    You're a jackass. She falls for you and you string her around for a few months, but now that you realize you're getting a pretty good deal with your maid, youre pissed because she ruined your day?
     
  6. eveluvsrox

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    awesomeness
    i was thinking that
     
  7. kpsta

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    It's not your fault. She met the thadeus. Now instead of driving 4 hours to see you, she's crawling 12 hours to be with the thadeus.
     
  8. MattM

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    Ignore her, move on, get over it.

    Do not communicate with her. Set emails from her to go directly to spam. Cease all ties - it's for your own good.

    It is another guy for sure. Don't try to pry it out of her. A woman will never, ever tell you the truth.
     
  9. Greg8231984

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    No matter what her reasoning is, things will never be the same with her. Just move on. Trying to get her back will just prolong the inevitable break-up. When things worsen dramatically in the sack after only being together for a few months, it is not a good sign.

    Cut off contact, move on.
     
  10. percicles

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    Man up! Nothing a couple of escorts can't cure.
     
  11. The_Yoyo

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  12. no_answer

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    He's not going to listen, I can tell.
     
  13. Lady_Di

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    yeah, why bother? He's gonna try to contact her...he's thinking with his heart instead of mind.
     
  14. Hmm

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    as if you two actually cared.....
     
  15. RKREBORN

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    DO NOT CALL OR CONTACT HER IN ANYWAY! I cannot stress how important this is. Act like you do not care at all. Reading her email, I will GUARANTEE she will want to get back with you next week. The question is, is this what you really want?
     
  16. Rock3t Man

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    Dude, that is stupid it is not another dude!!!


    Its another chick!

    Ok Ok, but in all seriousness, that means nothing, I give it a week and she will be calling you telling you how much she misses you and how she wants to be with you. Bro, there was obviously a reason you didnt want to be in a relationship with her, because you weren't attracted to her at first. The only thing that has attracted you to her is her cleaning and driving far to see you.


    DUDE, Chill out its only been about seven months. That is nothing, plus why would you get into a 4 hour long relationshipt especially with gas prices

    ITS NOT ANOTHER GUY
     
  17. Ari

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    That's nothing, try getting an e-mail while at work from an inconsiderate, idiotic cousin back in your homeland telling you your mom passed away and that her funeral is in a couple of days.

    THAT, my friend, will ruin more than just a day.
     
  18. Wakko67

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    Given everything you said, it sounds like another guy. I've been involved with women where distance was an issue and I've seen the signs. She might not even be into him as much as you, but he's there. That alone will win it.

    If it was another issue, she would've brought it up and tried to work it out. Its tough quitting a relationship on your own.

    Listen to what everyone else is saying. Don't even bother with it and move on. There's always the likelihood that she'll get in touch at some point when it works for her, but don't fall into that trap. It could be fun for a little while, but its not worth it in the long run.
     
  19. tmac2k8

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    I've talked to her, she's gave me very vague reasons for what she's doing...says the feeling is not there and it was before but not anymore. Keep in mind...it was just mid jan. where she gushed at me and said she feels like she was falling in love with me and i'm the best thing that ever happened to her. It was only this Saturday weekend that she wrote me to tell me how much she misses me and being apart is making her feel stronger...yeah so whatever...she changes in 5 days?? I've told her what pisses me off is her writing me an email and disrupting my work day not the fact she doesn't want to be with me. I told her it's messed up and she lead me on, but I can live without her and that move she pulled has made me change the way i feel too. I told her i dont keep in touch with exs and that she's not hearing from me anymore after this...I dont plan on getting in contact with her anymore.
     
  20. tmac2k8

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    And I haven't been reading the responses on this board all day, so i wasn't ignoring you guys advice about not calling her...i know that's the best thing to do but easier said than done.
     

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