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GF send me long break up email at work - ruins my day

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by tmac2k8, Mar 13, 2009.

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  1. Roxfan73

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    #21 Roxfan73, Mar 13, 2009
  2. tmac2k8

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    Thanks for the ideas...i'm not naive, i wouldn't be suprisded if its another guy....i couldn't control my emotions though, i've already called her and left 2 messages...one was short "hey, next time you want to talk to me do it in person and dont send me a crappy email and disrupt my workday *click*).

    and the next one was after she didn't pick up her phone and hasn't called back in a couple hours and told her how ****ed up it was she wrote me an email and instead of talking to me about it...it was about a 3 minutes message......

    of course if i was rational and not raging than i would have prolly called once and left a message but that never is the case when you just got dumped.
     
    #22 tmac2k8, Mar 13, 2009
  3. ajsports23

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    amazingly accurate i bet
     
    #23 ajsports23, Mar 13, 2009
  4. leroy

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    I'm leaning towards you needing to go home at lunch to make sure she didn't clean you out.
     
    #24 leroy, Mar 13, 2009
  5. ima_drummer2k

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    Big mistake.

    You know what would've REALLY pissed her off? If you would have done absolutely nothing. Just be selfish, cold, and composed (to quote Ben Folds). I wouldn't have even called or replied to the email. And I would have never contacted her again. Maybe reply to the email by saying "OK, have a nice life." And that's it. It would drive her CRAZY.

    I did that to a chick that dumped me in college. She called me a week later to see how I was doing :rolleyes: and I was so cold and distant to her. Not angry or hurt or sad, just totally composed and carefree. After that phone call, we never spoke again. And I heard through her friends that it was driving her CRAZY wondering why I wasn't begging for an explanation etc. It just KILLED her that I didn't give a flying ****.

    So, in the end, I won.
     
    #25 ima_drummer2k, Mar 13, 2009
  6. moestavern19

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    The biggest turn on for a chick with low self esteem is to be treated like **** and to feel like he wouldn't care if you fell off the face of the earth.

    This is a sad reality that many guys take advantage of.
     
    #26 moestavern19, Mar 13, 2009
  7. FLASH21

    FLASH21 Heart O' Champs

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    I agree. That's the best way to leave it. Make them wonder. ;)
     
    #27 FLASH21, Mar 13, 2009
  8. tmac2k8

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    Of course, but easier said than done....not talking about some chick i went out on 4-5 dates with and now playing some head games with....
     
    #28 tmac2k8, Mar 13, 2009
  9. Fatty FatBastard

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    Dude, y'all were 4 hours apart, and this was only for 3-4 months.

    Sure sounds like 4-5 dates to me.
     
    #29 Fatty FatBastard, Mar 13, 2009
  10. FLAGRANT1

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    It is very hard to do but you can't let her know that. Delete her emails before you can read them and block her number. Give it at least 6 weeks before you respond to anything she is trying to send you. If you see her again you should only ask her one question about the break up. So think about it and make it good.
     
    #30 FLAGRANT1, Mar 13, 2009
  11. krnxsnoopy

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    1) Don't call her.

    2) There's another guy involved.

    3) Don't call her.

    4) Don't call her.

    5) Don't call her.
     
    #31 krnxsnoopy, Mar 13, 2009
  12. no_answer

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    Don't be so emo! Go out with some else to take your mind off her.
     
    #32 no_answer, Mar 13, 2009
  13. Royals Ego

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    This may have been overlooked in the other thread :(

    Hi there, how are you this day?
    A Friday of frigid and gloom
    A Friday needing a heart shed
    Then why I don't I assume

    Monday to Friday, nine to five
    My mind wonder, while my heart thrive
    For this beautiful girl, this lovely dame
    Who's out of my grasp, I cannot tame

    Please be idle while I conjure a flask
    A flask of love, fit for cupid's task
    With this vile, your love will sway
    To my arms, to warm up my Friday.
     
    #33 Royals Ego, Mar 13, 2009
  14. FLASH21

    FLASH21 Heart O' Champs

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    I understand that...

    Read the other posts I have from earlier.
     
    #34 FLASH21, Mar 13, 2009
  15. moestavern19

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    dude, she has kids.

    Don't wreck that cute, cuddly mexican home.
     
    #35 moestavern19, Mar 13, 2009
  16. The_Yoyo

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    listen to krnxsnoopy
     
    #36 The_Yoyo, Mar 13, 2009
  17. JuanValdez

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    I don't see why it'd be another guy. It's possible, but not enough data. I would say that the effects of infatuation wear off in roughly 6 months -- which is where you are at. You didn't start your infatuation cycle until a couple months after she did, so she snapped out of it first.

    I do have to say that threads like this make me appreciate how sensible my wife is. She has her idiosyncracies, but I've never had her try to yank me around like that.
     
    #37 JuanValdez, Mar 13, 2009
  18. yobod

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    Listen to Yoyo....oh, what? wrong thread? sorry....

    Seriously though, I would venture a guess that even if she HASN'T messed around with someone else, chances are she's thinking about it, and that's why everything has been so abrupt. And all this "I'm not ready to hear you say I love you to me" stuff is just a way for her to rationalize the fact that she IS thinking about this other dude. And I agree that you shouldn't call her or anything anymore....she's clearly ignoring your phone calls because she's EXPECTING you to call. When you don't call, that's when she'll start wondering where the hell you've gone.
     
    #38 yobod, Mar 13, 2009
  19. no_answer

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    Fixed. ;)

    Don't worry moe, I won't be leaving my husband for Royals. You can sleep better tonight. :p

    Royals, that was very emo.
     
    #39 no_answer, Mar 13, 2009
  20. moestavern19

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    What if he offers to clean the house?
     
    #40 moestavern19, Mar 13, 2009
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