:grin: So... what are the drawbacks, man? Dude. Your situation and mine are different. We have kids. We can just bow out of this one. Well, maybe I can... since I'm happily married, with children.
Can we have a special tag when a thread includes Swoly-D's annoying self-righteous posts where he just can't.****ing.fathom that people feel differently about things than he does? That way, I know not to click on them?
married at 33 late last year after dragging my feet across the country kicking and screaming in 2007, together since 2004. it took a few life changing epiphanies including my brother's own divorce and a mild breakup between me and my girl, finalized by my dad's health scare and "finding god moment"- just staring at my girl singing in church and realizing she is the best thing that ever came into my life... now that we did it and are still in newlywed bliss, I know that I wasn't close to being ready in my 20's- I had to grow up on my own terms an luckily I have a woman who has the patience of a saint and the kindness of Mother Teresa.
It's not like swoly's posts in other threads are better or something. Put his asinine drivel on ignore already and walk that **** off.
Like I said, what I think may be a drawback is going to be a positive or a non-issue to you. Like I said, I am fine with that and respect your positions, whatever they may be. Why can you not return the favor?
Yes... I can, yes. I just want to know what your definition of "drawbacks" is. I never said "you can't give your opinion here because it's different than mine." I never said "you're wrong and I am right." You just brought up that word... and... well, I wanted to know. :grin: Oh, hi, Groogroeuqoweudphpeuhqepiurux!
No, 30 is usually the age women start feeling the need to crap out a kid. By 40 it's kinda pushing it too late.
Does anyone else suspect that SwoLy-D's insistence that he's happy and doing everything the right way is really an indication that he dreams daily of divorce and freedom?
People still don't have Swoly on ignore? Why submit yourself to that torture? And why must you guys quote his posts? They don't stay on ignore when they're quoted.
Sort of like packing the back of a Chevy truck with 20 bicycles and 12 stuffed animals and driving down the highway is some people's prerogative/god given right, so is not getting married in that same sense.
I have no willpower so whenever I've had someone on ignore in the past, I end up clicking to see the post I'm "ignoring" so it's really an exercise in futility. I'd rather just tell people they annoy me. :grin:
I have wondered that for a long time. Duty and responsibility are admirable... but SwoLy-D goes too far and discusses it too often, I think he is trying to convince himself so he doesn't go Don Cornelius.
