on the contrary, some high quality women are used to being chased. i'm just saying as a rule regardless of the type of woman.
Well I met up with my friend that introduced me to my date and she confirmed that the girl enjoyed our evening together but the deal breaker was that I let her take the train and that I didn't drive her home (if you recall, I told her I would drive her home if it wasn't safe and she said it was fine). My friend explained to me that girls in the Bay Area don't take trains by themselves at night no matter what they say. (I lived in NYC for 9 years, where it is common for girls to take the subway by themselves at night). Oh well, you live and learn.
Yea, saying "she's not that hot, but kinda nice and polite" is where you know OP should move on. Always aim high, bruh. Don't be satisfied by the 7/10s, do it like Paul and at least aim for the 8/10s.
So, she was testing you AND set you up? It's wayyy too early to be testing each other. Sounds like the kind of girl who plays games too much. She did you a favor.
ya man move on. A girl that's already trying to test you on the first night? Sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen. She did you a favor. ON to the next one!
Do you think her expectations were too high now? This type of stuff kinda gets under my skin. Usually travel arrangements are made before the date. If she told you she was taking the train to and from the date, then it shouldn't be a deal breaker. While I think you would have driven her home if she was more attractive (we're guys... it's ok to say it), she needs to grow up and take responsibility for herself rather than set a deal breaker on crap that doesn't really matter. Maybe you only feel bad because she was the one that didn't want to go out again. NOW if you really did like her and want to see her again. Perhaps you could call her and apologize for not taking her home because you were tired. You would deserve a second chance on the fact that she enjoyed herself and the date. If she can't get over it, then she's definitely too immature to be dating.
