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First argument with new GF...do I cave

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by heypartner, Jun 20, 2008.

  1. Hayesfan

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    Not true. And the fact that she slapped you is reason enough to walk away now. I was in one of those relationships and it progressively got worse. If she does it once, she will do it again.

    I am sure there are still normal single women in Houston. Trust me there are enough of them out there, the hard part is just finding them.
     
  2. GlassHalfFull

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    I'm with Hayesfan, the slap is a HUGE stop sign. Run for the exit, do not pass go, do not collect $200 (or a last bit of nookie).

    The trouble is meeting the right people, once you are out of college and in the work force, it is progressively harder to meet person's of the opposite sex if you are interested in a real relationship.
     
  3. Surfguy

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    maybe you should tell us why you got slapped, heyp, instead of us just thinking "you got served" for no good reason. what did you do? also, i can pretty much guarantee you that any offspring you have with this woman are going to develop bi-polar disorder as well. of course, you knew that.
     
  4. rrj_gamz

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    Still waiting...
     
  5. Fatty FatBastard

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    You guys realize he's not here, right?
     
  6. HOOP-T

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    She didn't kill him, did she????? :eek:
     
  7. danny317

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    i think this board need some pics in order to decide whether or not you should cave. :D
     
  8. B-Bob

    B-Bob "94-year-old self-described dreamer"
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    True. He is seeing these rough, leather-skinned frontier women. Sawed-off shotgun on the hip, waiting on the front porch kind of scene.
     
  9. Lynus302

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    Crazy ones are better in bed.

    There....I said it.
     
  10. finalsbound

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    If I had a nickel for every time the phrase

    "she was crazy...but man was she awesome in bed!"

    has been uttered in the hangout, I wouldn't be living with my parents...

    But hey, if you can put up with the BS, more power to you! I don't have a penis, therefore I can't think with one, but I'd imagine guys continually go back to the hot-yet-crazy girls, just like a lot of girls go for the bad-unstable-guy type.

    After all, we're here to listen to your rants. :cool:

    HP, I'm sure there are cute, down-to-earth chicks in Boulder. Where to find them, I don't know. But you're a good guy and you have the right to be selective.

    So is this move permanent? It'd be fun to see you at a game again next season.
     
  11. heypartner

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    it was really for no reason at all. I guess you could say she thought I was ignoring her, purposefully making her wait in the car. She slapped my hand first (no response) then the forearm (no response) then the shoulder (no response), then the face. I guess I was supposed to react to the first one. She cried, did her choppy breathing, where I have to tell her to slow down, called friends to calm her down, etc. She then went out of her way the rest of the evening to treat me as nice as possible.

    my sister told me it's called "rapid cycling." my brother can be much worse than this.

    i don't know. Violence is definitely inexcusable. i'm debating whether or not to quit or do counseling with her. She's much more honest about herself (disorder) than my brother ever has been. That's supposedly an important positive sign.
     
  12. heypartner

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    you should come see the Rox play the Nuggets :cool:
    maybe for a honeymoon.
     
  13. Fatty FatBastard

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    Just buy her some Trimspa and dump her ass.
     
  14. finalsbound

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    I was actually throwing around the idea of Colorado for the honeymoon. I loooove white water rafting and rock climbing. The wedding most likely won't be 'til 2010 though. :(
     
  15. Deckard

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    Surfguy, that's an extremely broad (as in wrong, IMO) statement. Having said that, HP should start looking for greener pastures, I think. It's one thing to ponder how your offspring might turn out (just fine, more than likely), but another thing to live with someone like that. Of course, that's taking a very long view that HP might find ludicrous to ponder, at this point in his career. ;)
     
  16. Apollo Creed

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    Next time you see her, before you say anything, just slap the **** outta her

    and be like "HOW DO YOU LIKE IT?!?!?!"

    and then when she starts crying be like, "Oh, MY bad, I'm bipolar now too. Suck on it"
     
  17. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    I am so sorry HP....bipolar does not give her an excuse for violence.

    Was she also doing the Soulja boy dance ?

    ;)

    DD
     
  18. Deckard

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    You should put this in the "Things I did that Prove I'm a Douchebag" thread, dude.
     
  19. heypartner

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    k, fine. These are mostly from her recent birthday weekend, which couldn't have gone better. She's showing these to her friends, too, so I guess it's ok to post.

    <img src="http://168.103.206.26/psrt/jess/jess1.jpg"><br><img src="http://168.103.206.26/psrt/jess/jess2.jpg"><br><img src="http://168.103.206.26/psrt/jess/jess3.jpg"><br><img src="http://168.103.206.26/psrt/jess/jess4.jpg"><br><img src="http://168.103.206.26/psrt/jess/jess5.jpg"><br><img src="http://168.103.206.26/psrt/jess/jess6.jpg">
     
  20. Lynus302

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    Nice, HP.

    Piercings are awesome.

    I think I'd have to :):ahem::) put up with some craziness for awhile longer, if you know what I'm sayin'.
     

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