HP, Seriously, I think you overthink these things....... Just go with the flow, especially if she offers to blow. DD
On the one hand, it makes me happy that the first reply would be this quote. On the other hand, I'm sad that you added the "to." YoYao didn't understand grammar!
I know, right? If on the one hand you have the Indigo Girls, but on the other hand you have worrying about doing what your woman wants to do... my head just exploded again. I must retell the Indigo Girls story. they broke my friend's nose in Seattle. He was going into his favorite record store and the store swings out quickly, smacking his nose. Man they suck. So every time he rants about how bad they are, somebody says "what did they ever do to you?" And then we get the nose story again.
In my opinion - you're making a battle out of nothing. Stop reading into things so much, you're sounding like a woman.
i'm am also perplexed about the Indigo Girls reference, was that literal and did it mean something else..... for once Dak is sort of right, be cool dude, and also be upfront, some space is good, you just gotta word it the right way... if not just wear that manky old cap of yours, that will get you some space
You share a bed with her every night (essentially) for a month, and you are surprised that she doesn't want to sleep alone? That's wierd, man. After a month of sharing a bed every night, it becomes routine. Maybe she is looking for stability. If after a month, you boot her out of bed, she is going to wonder why. She is going to wonder what changed. Put yourself in her shoes.
If you've been smashing for a month straight, it's not that easy to take a weekend off. Start off small like...say a Monday through Wednesday off.
I hope HP and her make it work..... Just chill and enjoy the ride, don't over think relationships......... Just enjoy them while they last....... DD
I worry I weigh three times my body I worry I throw my fear around But this morning There's a calm I can't explain The rock candy's melted, only diamonds now remain ooh ooh ooh ooh By the time I recognize this moment This moment will be gone But I will bend the light pretending That it somehow lingered on Well all ive gots oooh oooh oooh oooh And I will wait to find If this will last forever And I will wait to find If this will last forever And I will pay no mind Well it won't and it won't because it can't It just can't (It's not supposed to) Was there a second of time I looked around? Did I sail through or drop my anchor down? Was anything enough to kiss the ground And say I'm here now? And she is here now oooh oooh oooh oooh oooh oooh oooh ooooooh... So much wasted in the afternoon So much sacred in the month of June How bout you? And I will wait to find If this will last forever And I will wait to find That it won't and it won't and it won't And I will pay no mind Worried bout no rainy weather And I will waste no time Remaining in our life together
Can I say it was mutual cavage? Or do ties always go to the women?! You guys do not help a dude in his moment of weakness. As for Indigo Girls, it was an outdoor event at Chautauqua park in Boulder overlooking the city with a mountain backdrop. My friends with kids invited me to sit on the lawn doing the shared-baby watching picnic thing that all bachelors just love to attend (sigh), and gf likes them. Actually the first heyschweetie liked them, too. what? OK, I'm making BBQ ribs today at a buddy's house. gf said yesterday she wants to come try the real deal Texas ribs, but already made plans to go tubing in Colorado Springs instead. You know, based on the whole make our own plans this weekend argument we had. She missed that ride; I witnessed the wake up call. "I'm tired." haha She likes ribs. And just ask Behad about how the BBQ provider is supposed to be treated well all day long...and even longer.
