I could be wrong, but I'm guessing that Isabel knows the best way for her to get off. Unless of course she's cheating on Jeff with you!
Nah, the spot is always in the same general area. The girl just knows how to get there. And for the love of pete, don't be a-thrustin while your lady is getting to it.
I wonder if all women are really the "same" in that department like everyone thinks. My guess is there is a lot of individual variation, and it's just hard to compare it. Guys all get off the same way, essentially. (well, not that I have extensive experience, but I get the idea) Also, there's no such thing as "half an orgasm" for guys, and multiple ones usually don't happen.
The women I'm with get off all the time. I know this because during sex, they always yell "GET OFF!!!" at the top of their lungs.
EEEW. Thanks for the reminder. It's bad enough I know about theirs. I'm still sure as hell not going to go to them and let them in on my sex life by thanking them for it all... I don't want them knowing about mine at all.
Well, if you just keep twisting it around, no wonder it doesn't work. Ouch. By the way, how do I put this... y'all aren't as easy to figure out as it may appear. (One of the stories above confirms this.) From the romance novels (pr0n for women) and other popular sources of information about the subject, you would think that all men are equipped with a powerful, invulnerable rod of steel that loves anything you do to it. A young woman might be surprised when first finding that it is fairly sensitive to pain and some activities make it uncomfortable or just don't do much to keep it up. (I would think you would know not to pull on it, though. Duh. I mean, think about the activities it likes to do and what direction it's going when it does that. )
Been there. Lets just say a past g/f was a gnawer if you will. Don't know what i'm talking about? Go watch Old School and watch that part where Andy Dick's character teaches his lesson and he basically scrapes the crap out of that carrot....*shudders* worst thing EVER!
Speaking of woman who can't orgasm, there're some that doesn't even get any satisfaction from sex meaning the sensation is not there for her and she doesn't feel well, horny(orally and intercourse). I know this b/c I've been with one like that in my last long term relationship. Makes me wonder if this is cause by genetics or does she has sexual dysfunction problem? Its really sad and sux for me b/c she had everything I wanted in a girl...smart,fun,pretty and has one of the nicest body of all the girls I've dated. To top that off, I was her first...but b/c of this, I just had to move on so I don't feel the guilt of getting all of the pleasure for nothing. Anyone else been with some like this, or do I just have bad luck like I said before?
noize, My high school girlfriend was like that. She had some health problems in that area that led to a hyper-decreased sex drive. She found out that she will have to have major surgery if she plans on having children one day. Your ex may have some problems as well.
I think this article is even more outrageously shocking Female orgasm, the mate-selector? (link) It's all in the genes and has helped women find Mr Right David Adam news@newstoday.com.sg WOMEN who fail to have orgasms during sex may be genetically programmed to weed out unreliable men who are a flop between the sheets, according to new research. Scientists who have studied thousands of women's ability to climax say it is largely written in their genes -- the most compelling evidence so far that the female orgasm has a biological role. The findings suggest the failure of some women to orgasm regularly is not a dysfunction, but a sophisticated mate-selection strategy that evolved in prehistoric times. Professor Tim Spector of St Thomas's Hospital in London, who led the research, said: "The theory is that the orgasm is an evolutionary way of seeing if men can prove themselves to be good providers, or dependable, patient and caring enough to look after the kids." Women who orgasm very easily may be more likely to be satisfied with poor quality men. "Perhaps women who had orgasms too easily weren't very good selectors," Prof Spector said. "It paid women to be more fussy and this is one way of doing it. "The simple fact is that it takes women on average 12 minutes and men two-and-a-half minutes to reach orgasm. Adjusting to that imbalance is a test." His team used a national register of twins to ask 4,037 women, aged 19 to 83, about their sex lives and to compare their DNA. About half were identical twins, who share all their genes. The others were non-identical twins, who do not. Assuming twins are brought up in similar environments, this allows scientists to tease out the differences that are down to genes. Thirty-two per cent of the women said they infrequently or never experienced an orgasm during sex. Only 14 per cent said they always had an orgasm during sex. Genetic comparisons showed that 34 per cent of the variation during intercourse was inherited. Prof Spector said these were low estimates -- because they were based on answers to intimate questions -- and that in reality, genes are probably the greatest single factor involved in whether women have an orgasm or not. "But there's so little research -- it's really a taboo area," he said. The genes could work on a physical level, perhaps causing variations in the G-spot. They could work psychologically, altering a woman's confidence or mood, or they might vary the activity of enzymes or hormones. The research opens the door to further studies to identify the relevant genes and perhaps develop treatment to help more women reach orgasm. The genetic aspect to how easily women experience an orgasm during sex shows it is subject to evolutionary pressure, which means it must confer a biological advantage. One theory is that orgasms promote fertility. Studies have shown that women are slightly more likely to have an orgasm when they are ovulating. There is also evidence that the uptake of sperm increases when a woman climaxes. But if this were the only explanation, all women would have orgasms. "The theory I prefer is the mate selection theory," Prof Spector said. "If a man is considered powerful enough, strong enough, or thoughtful enough in bed or in the cave, then he's likely to hang around as a long-term partner and be a better bet for bringing up children." -- The Guardian ================================================ What do you think, guys (and a few gals here)?
Age and physical conditioning have a lot to do with it in regard to the ability of males to be multi-orgasmic, or the closest thing we can come to it having two or more orgasms without having to wait to recharge. Speaking from my own experience its like running a mile at a full sprint. As I get older it gets harder to do.
