Sorry to hear this man... If there's one thing I can say, its that a lot of the people that have posted here have gone through something like this and I know exactly how you feel. it's tough and it's even worse when you didn't do anything wrong because it just becomes impossible to comprehend and come to grips with. People are weird and worse people are just flat out immature and it sucks when you're the mature and good one and yet you're the one who gets hurt. Hang in there and just try to find hobbies to get your mind off of it or hang out with friends. There are always people who care about you and I'm sure in time you will find someone else. You seem like too good a guy not to.
Harrisment..... Happened to me in March.. Day before I was flying up to Seattle to see her.... She tells me that unless I am coming to stay that to not come at all. She calls every month or two and kind of hints at getting back together But i dont want to move up that way. There are tons of women in Houston. I found a lot of happiness in taggin a few different asses. So you will have that goin for ya. Happy hunting.
Good luck Harrisment. You're still young, and there's no limit to the opportunities out there. If life as you known it has ended, then think of it as a new beginning. Not many people get second chances in life whether they truly deserve it or not. What was it that you wanted to do but you thought you couldn't before? Just work for it step by step, and the problem of living well will solve itself.
Maybe I should start a new thread for this, but I'll try it here. Are lawyers an absolute must when getting a divorce? We've just about decided on who gets what bills, but some of the things are in my name (like the car) and she would be taking over the payments for it. I really don't want to get lawyers involved if we dont have to. Neither of us can afford it really.
I wish you the best, bro. keep your head up. As for your divorce, if you are going for an uncontested divorce, you guys should be able to get it done without any lawyers.
Hey, I'm sorry to hear about what happened. My girlfriend recently left me for the second time and I was in pain, but I know that what you are going thru is worse. I think I have personally realized that if a woman leaves you once, she will do it again. Its only a matter of time. The same probably applies for a woman cheating on you, if that is what she did. I've never been married so I don't know what it must be like, but maybe you should seek the guidance of a marriage counselor. I'm not saying that all your problems will go away but a good marriage counselor may help to organize and address the differences between you and your wife, and try to work it out somehow. I know that two acquaintances/friends of mine were having great difficulties in their marriage until they went to a marriage counselor. Good luck bro. For me, it was going out with my friends, chatting with female friends and seeking their advice, watching lots of UFC, an occasional beer and pizza that helped me get over my girl.
I just saw this thread for the first time. I met both of yall multiple times and I am pretty shocked. You're in my thoughts man.
dude, a friend of mine got divorced, he told me it cost him $20,000 in lawyer fees. i'd advise to seperate amicably and avoid all that $$$.
Do you know why divorce is so expensive? It's worth it. HAHA I make funny. Laughter is the best medicine after all.
Harrisment, make sure she doesn't get any of your Rockets memorabilia! she would be evil if she takes away your Robert Horry jersey!
Harrisment, I am so sorry and shocked for you. I have always liked you and I am hoping for the best for you. Hang in there even though I know it is rough.
I tried to talk to you beforehand. I think both your wife and her friend are great girls, and I tried to tell them how much of a great guy you were. Unfortunately, the three of you decided to not take my (amateur) read on y'all. I still think that you and your wife are great for each other. But, at the same time, she has been with you since she has known boys. Your best bet is to let her sow whatever oats she thinks needs to be sown. Without malice or jeolousy or any forethought. You have to let her go, period, and be confident in doing it. Watch "Swingers" a couple of times, if need be. The weird thing is that you have to not ever want her back in your life (and I mean sincerely) for her to want to come back in. At that point in time, I'd just as soon let her go, but that is me. It will be a long road, but one I've traversed a few times. You let me know when you need a partner in crime. Love you buddy. 6 months from now, we'll laugh about this.
Unfortunatley, I know what you're going through...I felt that way too, but only you know what's right for you...are there kids involved? That's usually what makes it tougher, but being with someone for so long makes you feel like you can't live withough, but that will pass over time... If you want to chat, send me an e-mail...Hang in there...
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Women, even the ones that seem to be the best of them, can be so ****ing evil it's ridiculous.
Harrisment, how about we all plan a CLUTCHFANS vegas trip so we can bet on some NBA games? I'm thinking about going with some buddies in October. Nothing solves the troubles of the world and personal life than gambling and Houston Rockets basketball!
Well this is official, we are getting a divorce. It's unbelievable to think that someone I have known and loved so long was capable of doing the things she has done to me. But I'm finally starting to realize I am better off without her. F%#! her. w****.
thats the spirit champ. You're too good for that slute. But I know divorce sucks, I haven't seen my dad since I was 5 years old. Just be thankful you aren't dragging any kids through this mess. Things will get better.
