I can't advise you on that one much. I'm old school (been married for 11 years). I would think that, again, it's just a matter of sitting down casually and clarifying what the two of you should expect from each other.
what can I say, my ex gf, in the U.S, made me sit me through every single episode. I didn't mind seeing samantha naked. Anyone going to go see the movie?
I love dating in the U.S. Everything has to be so explicit. American girls let you get away with so much sh*t. U-S-A! U-S-A! U-S-A!
This thread is useless without pictures!!!! Jeez, what happened to all the r****ds on the board? 44 posts and a semi-lurker has to pick up the slack!
She's breathing? I dont think many guys would turn that down. Though for me, I would rather be looking for a girl I really like then be with a girl who is just a friend with benefits. I feel like I would be wasting my time in that situation.
so i'm either his gf or friend with benefits. my mission: kidnap his ass, tie him down and make him to say he's my bf.
You just need to have a little talk. How long have you been dating? If it's been only a month or two, it might just be that it's early. Maybe he hasn't brought it up because he doesn't want to scare you off or something.
I think at a certain point in the relationship if it is serious enough there would be some kind of discussion about the relationship itself. So I would say to really be a bf there should be a conversation in which it is discussed.
We have been dating for two months...he has brought it up well early into dating and I told him that I needed time since I recently ended a 2 year relationship before him. I guess it's either that he's waiting for me to say the word or he doesn't want to be a rebound.
Well there you go, he's probably still just giving you time. He might be thinking he shouldn't push the issue and sound needy. I would just bring it up if I were you. (except id be dating a girl of course)
I wouldn't want to look needy this time! Of course, it's going to be a chick! Thanks for the advice guys! It's always interesting to see how a guy think since I don't have a brother.
Maybe I'm the only one, but I wish women would just say what they think instead of futzing around so much. I was talking to a female friend the other day about an argument she had with her husband. She said she was hungry and that made her irritable so she complained about the weather and how she hated living here. Her husband felt bad because his children (from his previous marriage) are in Houston and he obviously won't move away from them. She doesn't want to move either. She was just grumpy about being hungry. I said, "Why didn't you just say you were hungry?" She had no answer to it, but she knew it was her fault. I'd rather PEOPLE just be honest and straightforward. It's much easier that way.
I guess its just because women want men to know how they're feeling without asking...i've done that before. I agree that things would be much better if people were honest and straightforward but there are so many things that stops us from doing that!
A friend with benefits is someone thats not exclusive, but they have sex, or only hughs and kisses, also is someone you dont talk everyday (like a gf)
