^LOL... Drinking or not, that's inexcusable...Shows a lack of respect and of course, no boundries...I would have kicked his ass...Friend or not... Back on point...Now, if she's currently your buddies g/f, wait until they break up, then get your groove on...
it ended badly for me once. She was saying his name while we were doing our thing! I called him to tell him about it the next morning & we laughed our asses off. Maybe you need to be Greek to understand this kind of relationship (or Italian). It's the ultimate "bros b4 hos". Passed from one to another....if she bites, your Mediterranean friend will accept the loss (she would have proven herself unworthy @ that point, no?). BTW, i'd never try it on a friend's serious girl....... just the plastic/weekly ones.
well what about this scenario: there is this girl I know I met year about 2 years ago. She is really cool and laid back we hung out a lot. She had a bf that was out of state so for the longest time I thought she was single. I finally did meet her bf, he was a pretty cool guy he moved back into the area and we've hung out as well and watch games a lot now. so now we are pretty good friends would that be in violation of the rules seeing how I met her first, but i think now i am just as good friends with both of them now and I still do like her. I just told myself if they ever broke up I'd go after her since i knew her before I knew him but i am not holding out on a breakup to happen
Sometimes I think guys are "drunk" as a cop out in the event the girl isn't interested. Of course there are plenty of guys out there willing to catch a case over this type of thing...
One of my friends asked my ex-girlfriends out 2 week after we broke up...i was pissed out of my mind...especial cause he would talk crap to everybody bout how i was wrong for just hanging out with his ex-girlfriend but he asks out my ex-girlfriend...but ive learned u just got to just throw away the people who betray u or at least be very careful around them... Dont trust anyone
^ That's not a friend... Ok, what about if your buddy has not technically gone on a "date", just met for coffee...Can you go out with her? Do you ask or is it better to ask for forgiveness than permission...
Buddy has first dibs, so you gotta clear it with him first. However, if he doesn't close the deal in a reasonable amount of time, he has to give you a shot. MAN LAW.
that's awesome I had a crush on one of my friends g/fs in college. She was super cool and down to earth, super hot, and super loaded but she was still the nicest girl. The guy was a friend, but kind of an d-bag/a-hole. what a waste
If it's a good friend and he's had any kind of history with her whatsoever.. no matter how small.. If I feel like it wouldn't be F'ed up for me to pursue her, I always talk to my friend about it first... make sure he's cool with it.
Okay. In college I dated this chick for about a year. When I broke it off with her, she proceeded to try to throw her cooch at several of my friends. My best friend (who was also my roommate) succumbed and fooled around with her. I was pissed and I let him know it. He soon saw the error of his ways and repented. All was forgiven and we're still friends to this day some 10 years later. I couldn't really blame him all that much because she was hot. And she's the one who came out looking poorly anyway: she got dumped by me and acted silly as a result. This next story involves a different best friend who was also my roommate: Just a few years back I was banging this chick from work. We'd go out, get wasted, and have raunchy sex following. There wasn't anything she wouldn't do, and I'd proceed to tell my friend / roommate all about it over beers on the back porch. This continued over a couple of months. The chick was plenty cool, but I just didn't want to take it any further than the 'get wasted and get laid' stage. After she and I stopped doing our thing, my friend was asking all these questions about my feelings for her (I was drunk, so I wasn't really catching on). When I convinced him that I really didn't want anything further with her, he told me he always had a thing for her and asked my permission before asking her out himself. They are now married. I stood up in their wedding and in their wedding program thing, they both thanked me for introducing them. The program actually read: "Thanks to [Lynus302] for....introducing us." It makes for good stories at parties. I guess the moral is that if it is handled correctly by all parties, it can work out just fine.
^Ho man great story! Can you imagine yourself being the other guy? I can't. It'd be like Reggie Bush after Ray J.
that's messed up bro... i would let it slide only because he was drunk... but if it happens again then i would probably end the friendship... you should make out with your girl when you guys hang out just to piss him off... true friends don't do that shiet ya dig
herein lies the difference between men and women.. when a dude tells a girl he's attracted to her he's really saying he wants to bang the shiet outta her
