Exactly. Whether you thought she was in the wrong for saying what she did, you acted like a complete jabroni for saying what you did. All she said was that Okafor was hot, not that she wanted to give him a BJ or moan and groan as he poured hot wax on her or anything like that. You responded with a vulgarity and to make it worse with one of the biggest sluts in the world in Christina Aguilera. I think you need to find a new girl, synergy - maybe you can try to get in touch with Ms. "Dirrrty" herself!
You know all this time I thought this thread was about Okafor causing problems to the GT interior defense or something. So I never read it. But it's been up here for so long I decided read it. I read to the part where you said "don't let the door hit you on your way out." that was funny, and i laughed. but probably not a good move man... she's a little too sensitive, but she's get a reason i guess. maybe she'll get over it. but if she breaks up over this, then it's not worth it.
If she got up and left over a sarcastic retort, it isn't worth it. Q. What have you done wrong when the woman comes out of the kitchen to b**** at you? A. Made her chain too long.
First of all, the lines from your girl were a TEST. She was testing you dude, it's so obvious. By letting her know that it bothered you when she said such a thing about another guy you demonstrated WEAKNESS. Women are NOT attracted to weakness and wussiness. What you SHOULD have done is LAUGHED and say something like "yeah, you can have him, you two are probably destined to end up together anyways" (never letting her know that it actually bothered you). And STAND YOUR GROUND. Don't appologize for being a man, everything else she's doing is also a test, you allready showed weakness once and you're doing it again by continuously calling her. If anything, bust her balls about it!! Do this: Do not call her first anymore, when she calls you (she WILL, otherwise just forget about it), and asks "what are you doing" tell her "oh, I'm just chilling with Christina Augilera". She will either laugh or pretend to be pissed to which you can respond with "look babe, we both overreacted, let's just move on, in fact, I'd never take Christina over Britney anyways so you have nothing to worry about "(with a sarcastic tone). NEVER let her know that she can bother you emotionaly with ANYTHING especially little things like comments on other guys, because then she'll be able to use it all the time and will have less respect for you. If she knows it doesn't bother you, she will respect you a whole lot more. So just make fun of her about it, in a funny way offcourse. And if this girl is a b**** from hell and is not willing to get over this WALK AWAY FIRST, tell her "well this is obviously not working out, see ya". And act like you're completely fine with you guys splitting apart and somehow let her know that you're seeing other girls, this formula will show you if she ever liked you all that much in the first place anyways and just plain willingness to walk away will make her not want you to leave. Girls like a challenge and knowing that you are ok with anything and have options will increase her attraction for you tremendeously. Anyways, I dont' want to get too confusing, but if you have anymore questions I'd be willing to help you out or maybe I should say "give you my opinions". Just e-mail me at "ARNELBOSS@AOL.COM" and let me know how things are proceeding. Later dude.
Arnel, is this a formula for a relationship or a power play? Do you find this method to be successful in creating long-lasting, loving, trusting relationships?
"Well, caller, we're going to just have to grow up -- no, no, be quiet. You said your piece, and boy did you say a mouthful, or an assful anyway. Now you're going to listen. Okay? Good. Emeka Okafur is indeed good looking. No shame in that, and your girlfriend being honest should not upset you. She's not saying she's going to leave you to go stalk Emeka. Please. Now, what you said in response, proposing an illegal -- well, it should be illegal -- act of sodomy on a complete zero of a human being: that's offensive. Your girlfriend stood up to you, and good for her. Now, go take on the day."
She gives sound advice, she's the one who let her mom rot in her house not checking on her and then left her at the morgue for a week?
Ok guys, an update. I decided not to call her back after I tried those two times. So, she proceeds to call me at work today. She said she wanted to have dinner and "try and put this behind us." I'm kinda nervous about having dinner with her, as another argument could break out, but I think it will be ok. You think I should smack her across the face ( I'm only half serious ) or pretend like nothing happened in the first place ? I'll let you know what happens.
