Thanks for the comments and advice guys. Followup: I tried calling her this morning ( i guess to somewhat apologize) but no one picked up the phone. I guess she was asleep. Maybe I should just wait and let her call me. I think I will prob. apologize in this situation, even though I believe it is not my fault that I started this mess. I think i should save this relationship just for the fact that my gf. is damn hot. I'll keep you guys posted...
Don't be a wuss. If you call her, you need to let her know the terms of the relationship. Either she's going to crack this whip at you for the duration of your entire relationship, or you are going to lay down the ground rules. You let her know you wear the pants in the relationship. You are Alpha Male. She doesn't even have a place in the hierarchy. If you apologize, you are taking the easy way out and she is chalking up yet another W. You now need to get Christina Aguilera memoriblia and make sure it is prominately displayed. You then need to take her back to your place and let her know what's what and who has the wang. I'm not saying you need to beat her, but a little bit of testosterone in the air won't hurt either of you.
Lol. Terrible advice, but funny. Seriously, is this the kind of relationship problems people have? If my wife and I had this sort of exchange, the whole thing would have been patched up inside 10 minutes. Knowing nothing about the agents in this story, I'm forced to guess that the events here are merely superficial manifestations of deeper resentments. That she'd repeat that Okafor is hot seems like needling -- like she's continuing some older argument. That synergy is so quick to anger and to retaliate makes it seem like his defenses are already worn thin. And, that his girlfriend would escalate the confrontation so quickly and to such an extreme extent makes it seem like she was just looking for an excuse to be angry in the first place. Either that, or you're both far too sensitive to have contact with other human beings. I don't know if this was a relationship advice thread, but since everyone else is advising, I will too. Go ahead and apologize. Don't expect one from her. Be the bigger man, so to speak, and move on. The whole event seems too inconsequential to take a stand on your dignity for. If you still can't reach harmony in the relationship when you're doing almost all the work, you know where the problem lies. If she reacts as a normal person would, though, she'll want to reciprocate in kind.
She sounds like a headcase. Break up with her. If she doesn't have the sense of humor to realize your Aguilera line was a joke... forget it. Why would you want to stay with someone who is so sensitive, that you can't be yourself? (Despite the alleged hotness factor, which we cannot accurately assess without visual aids)
Also, when Okafor becomes a millionaire in a few months, he'll have good looks AND money...what can you offer? Better cut it off and regroup...
Nope. It means we have to call all hot chicks that look like ass without any makeup on an "Aguilera". Celebs Without Makeup
