if we are talking about your father-in-law's fried rice, then i consider that a compliiment. btw: what is your #1 recommendation of Vietnamese restaurants again? let's get something straight. Achebe is the philosopher; rimmy is a poet; i play bridge; Rockets2K is living in the past; Manny Ramirez is overpaid; Juan makes coffee; Pole is an odd choice of monikers....and you're just some weird tv character. ....oh, and Achebe's girl is too good for him.