Only once I make eye contact do I approach them. Or I bring a hot female friend/wingwoman which the other girls use as competition to come approach me. For some reason, women want only what other women have. Like others have said, be yourself (hopefully that's being confident, standing up for some principle(s) in life, having a career that keeps you passionately busy, and just flourishing overall as Aristotle would say). Remember, you're supposed to have a great life, and you're throwing invites to any women/men out there who want to hop on. If they don't, their loss. Move on without a blink. Never take it personally. PS- Listen to Xerobull. One girl I dated was drop dead gorgeous, and the only reason I landed her was because I was the one guy not drooling over her, and when we dated, I seldom gave into her wishes which is why we broke up because she was too high maintenance/expensive.
I'm a pretty private person, so it takes a while for me to open up to someone believe it or not. So it's hard for me to say **** to chicks. Not until I know them pretty well.
After you get rejected from one girl, it makes the rest of the night easier because youll realize that its not a big deal to not score with every girl you hit on. I was in Vegas 2 weeks ago...went to XS...struck out at least 5 times...then ended up with a Spanish model. Right place at the right time. True story.
Back when I was a single man, I found a pickup line to work quite often: "Excuse me, young lass, when you gonna let me tap that?"
You mean, does he go around beating people over the head and about their bodies with a club? Maybe he does.
