I was always too shy to approach women. I usually met women through school (when I was young) or from being introduced to friends of my lady friends. I always did well with women when it's more of a group setting and they have time to understand my personality because I usually come off like a real dick at first. I think a lot of women take my lack of interest in a challenge when we are in a group and I don't gawk over them like every other dude. For a guy with absolutely no immediate game I pulled some nice looking ladies for a while.
Yup. Never let a woman think she's worth a damn to you. Be a douchebag. Punch her in the stomach. Get drunk and **** her friends. She'll be yours forever. LOVE IS A WONDERFUL THING.
So hey Finals what do you think of Egyptian Middle Kingdom architecture? About 10 years ago I tried speed dating (something I don't recommend) and by the 6th date I got so sick of asking and being asked the typical "what do you do?" "what part of town?" "What kind of music do you like questions?" that I led off with the question above. I got this stunned "huh?!..." look from the women across from me and then after a pause she asked me "So what kind of music do you like?"
well im 18, so im barely in my prime, and though i am taken with my gf (11 months) i always had "game". its not so much as going up to strangers that is the hard part, is making them laugh, always be clever and turn up the charm, say something cute, for example, if you see a chick at the mall say at hollister, you see her trying on clothes, go up to her, wit a smile, and be like her do you work here?? of course shes going to say know, so throw a cute laugh out, and be like oh my bad, and be like well can i ask you something anyways, im trying to find a shirt for my little cousin for her bday, you think this loooks cute, i mean since you have good style something like that. but whenever you go up to a girl, no matter how ugly or fat, its all about confidence and charm. if you can make her laugh and put a smile on her face, cha-ching my friend, cha-ching
thats how i work my game foo - tell a joke...walk away. i might even make her buy me a drink - work it like im jus' playin' and be all like "so you gonna buy me a beer or what". girlies like that. then when she buys it im like 'thanks girl' and you know what i do? ...i walk away. so pimp. i dont need no ladder theory - i live my life by 1 credo - WWMD? identify your target set the scene move in for da score and always peacock! on an awesome side note, did yall know 'matador' is from kingwood?
This is sound advice except for when being yourself is unlikeable to begin with. I had a friend who was kind of goofy and consequently he would tend to alienate woman. That actually helped me as on a couple of occasions the woman he was trying to hit on ended up giving me her number. Meeting people whether for dating, business or other purposes is a both a skill and talent. It is a skill that can be developed to a certain extent like learning to be a point guard in basketball, but it is also a talent that some people are more innate about such as having the court vision and instinctively hit the open player. One thing that helps is to enjoy yourself. If you are not enjoying yourself because you are too nervous about trying to meet someone you are going to have a hard time meeting people. To extend the basketball analogy it is like playing too tight and trying to force passes because you feel like you have to get an assist every play rather than playing relaxed and in the flow of the game. Also just to add don't obsess over rejection.
There's isn't any one approach. Not all women hate too much attention, some want it. Some want you to be allover them and some need their space. If you're just looking to bang someone, then you have to be a chameleon. If you're looking for a gf/wife, then you better be yourself. If they don't like it, then obviously they're not worth it.
just grab your b**** and walk up to them and tell them ," Damn girl!!!. You make a n**** d*** hard" haha
If you're out there like a hound dog always looking "to approach women", then you will be lost. Be out there on your own, be yourself, and just strike casual conversation or pick up on something you can see the woman likes, and make a small comment, but be a gentleman about it. Don't try to "pick up" every woman you see... they can sense you're out there trying this. They will in turn mention this to their girlfriends sitting with them, and there go your chances to pick up either one of them. Pretend you already have a girlfriend and watch how you'll be more loose to start "approaching women without knowing them." Make eye contact and be sure of yourself and don't look hesitant out there.
Fixed. Seriously, women are pretty easy these days. If all you're looking for is someone to hump and dump, you shouldn't have too much trouble.
well if a guy is a dork and a certain woman doesnt like dorks, then you'll have to change who you are some to score. and I'm talking about a woman worth something, for ugly and/or dirty whores one doesn't need advice or a thread.
