Jeez, you really are a Springer couple. So when y'all started dating, you were 26 and she was 16. This is not looking good for you, bub.
so.....not to be nosy or rude, but were you seeing a minor a few yrs back? hang in there...obviously, you're gonna do what you want to do, but listen to our words...the burn is gonna BURN.
No easy thing to decide. The key is to eliminate sex from the picture. If you think you could be happier with the other person even if you had no sex, and if you think she would be happier too, then go for it. But once again, think about her too. Because she may not want you as much as you think. You have to decide. Who would you be happier with if their was no sex. Now, if you have no intentions of marrying either, and you want the sex. Go for it. Just be prepared for the consequences of having nothing left afterwards. You should always remember, it's 10 minutes of ooohh yeah, boom, boom, boody boody, and a lifetime of whatever comes next. And a LOT of things you didn't want can come next.
Yeah it sounds crazy from the outside looking in but I cannot paint you the whole pic in a few words.
good point of view. But we do not think about just having sex. Thats not important now in my heart/mind. To be together would be fine and alright for now. Sure I would want to have sex pretty soon.
It is allowed where I live as long as the parents give their ok and the person is 16 or older. And it does not seem that I was just hot for the girls and then being together for more then six years. And the burn, yes, it would burn, as all of you say.
Stay away. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Stop and think whether it's possible to last 6 years with this one. If it is then break off the old one. No cheating. Cheating sucks. And as for the threesome mentioned, give me a break.
the future will tell..................... thanks to all. have to listen to some Jimmy Webb now. good night
I have had too many situations like this to count. The kicker for me was always "what do I want in the long term?" If you truly see yourself staying with the current gf long term, then the friend is just a temptation that must be overcome for you to move forward with the current gf. If you are looking for a way out, then more than likely the friend is just a convenient excuse. Basically, you just need to **** or get off the pot. Make the decision about your current gf (is she your future or your past?) and go on from there.
My advice is in bold below: JERRY: So as you can see, I've got a bit of a problem here. GEORGE: Well, if I hear you correctly--and I think that I do--my advice to you is to finish your meal, pay your check, leave here, and never mention this to anyone again. JERRY: Can't be done, huh? GEORGE: The Switch? JERRY: "The Switch." GEORGE: Can't be done. JERRY: I wonder. GEORGE: Do you realize in the entire history of western civilization no one has successfully accomplished the Roommate Switch? In the Middle Ages you could get locked up for even suggesting it! JERRY: They didn't have roommates in the Middle Ages. GEORGE: Well, I'm sure at some point between the years 800 and 1200--somewhere--there were two women living together.
I just got out of a 4 year relationship and it was hard as hell to deal with, but I started going back to the gym and lost about 50 pounds now I have my game back. The problem is I met a chick who lied to me about her age (she is 20 and I am 34), she said she was 26. It's always something bro, just keep busy and the heartbreak will pass. ****ing women are evil though.
Nothing good will come out of this. Besides all of the pain and stress this would cause, your new girlfriend will always wonder if you will stay faithful to her and vice versa.
Man ive been with my girl well now fiance' for 7 yrs, and lived together for about 4 as well. I think the way you are feeling is pretty normal, ive gone through that before, my my situation is worse, its with her sister. Man, its all lust, even if u think its not about the sex, it really is. Just everytime you think about her, and wanting to be with her, jack off, and you'll be alright aftewards, haha. It works, cause once im done, i ask myself what the **** was I thinking.
