It depends on the situation, I have never nor will I ever date anyone that one of my friends has dated but that is just me. As far as your situation goes than I say date her if you are serious if your not 100 percent serious than move on IMO. I have had friends date ex's of mine and while every situation is different I don't think I would want to deal with it again.
i came in here to post something like this. but since posting something like this would be redundant, i decided it would be best that i just quote it.
The problem is that there are mutual friends involved. Some of them will be asked to take sides in this matter. Personally, after a LTR, I refrain from serious dating for at least a few months - But that's what's good for me, and not RM95.
Judging from RM95's original post, it doesn't look like he is looking for a "serious relationship". The guy is going through a divorce. The last thing he wants right now is a "serious relationship". That being said, RM95 needs to hit it....hard.
The thing is, I asked them at the same time. I wanted to know if I was out of bounds by even considering it and all their reactions were the same. No, he shouldn't have a problem and after he said what he said that it really doesn't matter since we haven't really seen him in the past six months. I wonder if the responses would change if I informed the board that the guy is an OU and Mavericks fan.
In that case not only should you hook up with his ex, you should also bang his current girlfriend as well.
Oh, and I'm definitely not looking for a serious relationship. I'm not saying I'm averse to one because I don't think you can really control how your heart feels sometimes, but that's not my goal with this. If that's what the person wants and expresses that, I'll see how I feel about it, but I'm guessing that'll be the time I'll be hitting that ol' dusty trail.
Could be one of those women things I'm gonna get back at him by screwing his friend things? I figure since the original story intimate the friend ended it it is less taboo . .. than if he was heartbroken behind her leaving him Either way . . You just gotta man up and tell him. Which you done. . . no need ever bring it up again no use throwing it up in his face often Rocket River
how did their relationship end? did she leave him? regardless, go get it. bro's before ho's...but bro's dont mind their boys having hos
yeah, you were the better man and told him whats going on. There is no legit reason he wouldnt let his bud hit it...unless he gave her herpes or something
its one thing being an ex, its another when its your ex and you are getting married/engaged soon. If he were still heart broken and wanted her back, then you might stay away, but it seems he's fine. some guys just get so possessive over ex's
"Bros before hoes." Why? Because your bros are always there for you. They have got your back after your ho rips yours heart out for no good reason. And you are nothing but great to your ho, and you told her that she was the only ho for you, and that she was better than all the other hoes in the world... and then... and then suddenly she's not yo' ho' no mo'. "
Me too. Personally, I like to take some time for myself* for a few months after the end of a LTR. * Spoiler Masturbate. A lot.
If you did it without asking him I'd say he'd have grounds to be mad at you. Otherwise, fair game. If he ended it and is in a serious relationship now then he should be man enough to get over it.
unless he peed on her to mark his territory, the fact that hes on his way to being married should by default wipe the slate clean. it does sound like he's getting a bit territorial about someone who shouldn't matter to him anymore. of course, the flipside of this is that they will see more of each other and you know what they say about sex with an ex. if you do it, you bettah make sure you aint the jealous type, cuz you gonna wind up comparing your sex skills to your friends, etc.
